You sometimes see Asian men complain white women don't like them. But do Asian men like white women?

Please explain this to me.

Many a time have I been told or have heard that Asian men are bitter because they feel like most white women just aren't attracted to them. Does this make Asian men oblivious to white women nowadays? Do they not look at us just because they think we won't like them? Does a white girl have as much of a chance with an Asian as an Asian girl? Thanks.

Update:

By the way, I personally meant Chinese/Japanese/Korean/Vietnamese

when i said Asian.

And I'm not saying that the stereotype that white women don't like Asian men is true. It isn't for me.

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  • 1 decade ago
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    People have preferences, some Asian men will find white women attractive, some won't, and some will be indifferent.

    Personally, I find white girls as attractive as much as any other ethnicity. What really matter is how compatible we are. There are some Asian girls that I initially find very hot, but all her looks go out the window after 30 minutes of conversation. And there were white girls that I initially found indifferent, but they turn out the be the funniest, most caring, sweet person which I found very sexy.

    I have what I call the four S’s to judge a potential date; Sexy, Sweet, Smart, & Strong. As you can see, skin color is not one of them. It is hard enough finding women with 3 of the 4 qualities… Do you have the four? =)

  • 1 decade ago

    I am a Korean guy that was raised in a small town in Ky, so I was exposed to nothing but white women growing up. I myself personally am not as much attracted to "asian" women as I am towards white women or hispanic women. I am attracted to women of all ethnicities. Knowing a lot of asian men that are the exact opposite of me, I can tell you that yes a lot of them are unsure that white women will not like them. I am of the personal opinion that a white woman does have as much chance with an asian man, but does have to try a little harder to convey the correct body language to fully make an asian man notice that she is attracted to him. Trust me, asian men are not oblivious, but most asian guys are not confident enough to be the aggressor, and it doesn't help that there are a lot of white women that are too narrow minded to mix it up a little. It all just really depends on the area that you live. This topic always intrigues me, so if you have any further questions email me at coolhandluke001@hotmail.com, and I will be happy to give you my opinion.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Asian men that is pretty broad term because Asian can mean Chinese,Korean,Japanese,Indian etc.,I do not think that this stereotype is true since I am a white woman and Love Asian men.I love to travel in Asia and relate very well.Its an individual like and dislike,some people pref fer tall blond es,others like brunettes,its a personal style and taste of all people.There are plenty of Asian men who are not attracted to white women and just as many who are attracted to white women! we really cannot generalize and narrow everyone down into some sort of preconceived stereotype!

  • 1 decade ago

    I'm an asian man growing up in the US. I was raised by my adopted caucasian "white" uncle. I didn't know that I belong to the most hated group "asian men" until I start to notice girls. Women in America would automatically classified me as non-datable, unwanted right off the bet simply because I was borned an asian male. It can't be because I'm not assimilated; afterall I was raised by a white parent. It can't be because I'm uneducated; I graduated from a university with a BA 3.0 average, police academy as the top of my class, and I got my MCSE all on my own. It can't be because I'm small and short; I'm 5'10, 180lbs. So it must be because of my ethnic origin. I don't hate white women or oblivous to them. However, I realize that it's an impossible dream to find a white girl in America who would give me even half a chance. As for asian women; I would imagine that they don't like asian men just like white, black, hispanic, and middle eastern women don't like asian men.

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  • 1 decade ago

    I always catch Asian men staring at me (I'm not trying to brag or anything) and I always think it's strange, I guess because I always imagined I was not the "ideal" of Asian men. I'm tall, blonde, big chest, hour glass figure...anyway, I just always thought Asian men preferred a more "boyish" figure, slight and delicate. Not that ALL Asian men do, just that it was a cultural preferece, generally. Personally, I always found Asian men attractive, I just thought they would never go for ME (until I started getting all the looks!).

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Asian men are more partial to brunettes not your typical light skinned blond blue eyed.Im not sure why .My wife is Asian and I ask her ..She has been a socialite for a long time in her country .. Im talking about country club people. Her family is very well known but I ask her and she said yes they like white women but not your typical fair skinned blue eyed blond .Just her opinion.We went to her country and saw a few white women there and they were with white men I don't recall ever seeing and Asian man with a white woman

  • 1 decade ago

    Well based on my experience, hitting on white girls (especially attractive ones) is pretty much a waste of time for me because the rejection rate has been about 200% (the extra 100% for being ridiculed).

    True, I don't pay too much attention to white girls anymore. I rather focus on things I can accomplish. I just hope that I can prove myself in areas other than getting a girl.

    BTW: Stereotypes are false, but pretty darn powerful.

  • 1 decade ago

    No white women usually dont like asian men.

  • 1 decade ago

    Try to smile and get his attention. I am sure you will get results. Asian men love and crave white girls. Look at the hostess business in Japan, it's the caucasian girls getting all the clients. Best of luck to you!

  • 1 decade ago

    I saw this video on google video called "yellow fever" that I thought was hilarious and quite accurate.

    I don't think anyone can validly give an all-encompassing "yes" or "no" answer to that. There's too much individuality in taste.

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