i feel in love with my bf and went out whith his friend and we kiss. should i tell him?

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  • Andrea
    Lv 6
    1 decade ago
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    Why did you go out with his friend in the first place? Were you starting to have feelings for your friend or do you think it was a mistake going out with him? If you're starting to have feelings for his friend then I think you better break it off with your boyfriend before it's too late. On the other hand, if you felt that going out with his friend was a mistake, you better apologize now or your boyfriend might hear it from someone else about what happened then things will turn out messy. Good luck!

  • 1 decade ago

    You have to ask yourself two things. One, did the kiss mean anything to you? Was it some sort of amazing kiss and you felt things for the other guy? And if you answer that yes then you should really think about how in love with your boyfriend you are.

    The second thing you should take into consideration is why did you two kiss or even go out in the first place? If it was because you liked each other or something like that then again, you really have to start thinking about how in love you are.

    If the kiss meant absolutely nothing, then it's reallt not worth any mention. And I mean that like if it was an innocent kiss, not like a half hour make out session kiss. If it did mean something then you ahould really tell him.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    men are very proud if you tell him it will only hurt him, hurt him bad if you are sure that it will never happen again then don't tell him and you live with the pain of what you have done, without hurting him, but if you think there is a chance that it could happen again then you don't love your bf enough so you should move on all in all don't tell him cause it will hurt. and i know some will say be honest and he will start to trust you , well thats bull cause it happened to me and it is hard to trust the girl i cant even look at her with out feelin that pain and my friend well that friendship is over

  • 1 decade ago

    How can you say you love him but turn around and kiss his friend?Tell him so that he can dump you now.rather than later and hurt him even more.He'll probably feel like a fool if you wait to long.

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  • 1 decade ago

    Ok. I'm not gonna tell you it was wrong to go out with his friend in the first place, because you know that.

    If you really regret kissing the friend and you are sure it won't happen again, THEN you better not tell your boyfriend. But if you feel like it could happen again you should tell him what you did.

  • emma b
    Lv 5
    1 decade ago

    I think you should tell your Boy friend before your boyfriends friend tells him remember to be honest your BF will be upset but it is better to be honest and it is not just you your BF friend is also guilty! Good Luck & Happy New Year!!!!

  • 1 decade ago

    Well it would be better for him to hear it from you and not his friend but if you know that his friend will not tell him then dont tell him (what he dosnt know wont hurt him) let this other guy know that there is nothing more and that you do not want to be with him. good luck

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    of course u should tell him!! it would be better for u to tell him than him to hear it from somebody else and have it get blown out of porportion!! tell him and let his friend know that kissing isn't good if your in a relationship with his friend!!

  • 1 decade ago

    No dont tell him... just tell him you hang out with some friends and had a good time... Happy New Years

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    ♥ ♥ if you could kiss his friend then you are not in love with your bf... you should tell him before his friend does ♥ ♥

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