Boy Problems...again!?

Ok well, the guy i like is now in another state, so i have'nt seen him in ages and supposedly he is only there for a holiday. We have msged and what not and then the otha nite he called me just mainly going on about how great it is over there. The next day he's like you sounded heaps cute and he'll call me on new years. i dont get his motives if he is planning on moving there so he keeps telling me i really dont get it the point in doing anything or even bother speaking to each otha if we never see each other again...just wondering if anyone else had any ideas

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  • 1 decade ago
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    Go with the flow and see where it leads to.

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  • wishon
    Lv 4
    3 years ago

    adult men have their own stuff to handle. classes do suck- i'm not denying that. yet, i will take cramps over a public *****. Dudes are apparently continuously sneaking around attempting to shift issues around so it is not obtrusive. teen adult men have lots testosterone of their systems that they are able to easily be doing homework and rapidly, it somewhat is like, "hi down there, what are you doing?" (That has handed off to adult men i comprehend). additionally, if a dude has a ***** in college, each and every physique laughs at him. If a woman has a leak on her era, the ladies folk sympathize and the lads are terrified. additionally, ladies get a good option of what it potential to be a woman. There are much extra help communities for women than for adult men. Boys strengthen up without fathers, with damaging portrayals of adult men and fathers in lots of media (fathers are continuously incompetent while in comparison with the mothers, or basically want intercourse, and so on) and no training in a thank you to truly replace right into a guy. i'm fortunate sufficient to be with a guy who's what i could call a gentleman of the previous college. we are equivalent, yet we are additionally different. We supplement one yet another's transformations. even inspite of the shown fact that, maximum adult men are not so fortunate and don't get the reliable male community that they want. additionally, they get drafted. In Israel, ladies get drafted too, yet for a three hundred and sixty 5 days below boys do. Boys have their own issues. All issues seen, i could extremely be a woman. (additionally, while it somewhat is chilly, we can scouse borrow their jackets. And as quickly as we are snuggling watching a action picture or enjoying video games, ladies get to scouse borrow the blanket. And boys purchase us stuff. and that they generally make the 1st flow romantically. And...you get my factor. ladies have it extra helpful.)

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  • 1 decade ago

    Girl just tell him it is OVER but in a kind way. It is not healthy for a relationship to be apart for so long. Trust me girl I know it happened once beffore to me too. But i am telling you what is best for you and this guy.

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    find a boy at your school or close to home, or try to keep your mind off of boys by doing stuff with your friends, don't focus on this situation, i don't think it'll work. but if you really comitted to making this work, try calling him more or contacing him and really building a realationship. well, best of luck!

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  • well he probably just tellin u that since hes a guy and thats what guys do i bet when he gets 2 where eva he lives hes gonna tell another girl that so dont even waist your time one him!!!!!!!

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  • 1 decade ago

    Keep talking. It doesn't matter how far you are. Maybe talking to him about it will help a bit.

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  • Joho
    Lv 7
    1 decade ago

    just try talking to him. good luck and have a happy new year.

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  • 1 decade ago

    Move with him?

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    let it go.

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