how can u love a guy if he doesnt even care about you?

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  • 1 decade ago
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    First: wow our avatars look alike!

    and heres my answer:

    Loving someone that doesnt love you back is a very un-selfish kind of love. Not many people are able to love without being loved. It is great you are! Of course at some point you will need to get over it if there's really no way you can ever be with that person.

    A lot of people fall in love with people that would normally never seem attractive to them just because those people happen to find THEM attractive. It makes looking for a partner easier because those people are basically just waiting for someone "acceptable" to find them attractive and fall in love with them.

    You can fall in love with someone who doesnt care about you because you like their personality even if they dont like you back.

    Source(s): experience....and mom
  • 1 decade ago

    Maybe you fell in love with him (feel attraction, infatuation, like him, which is not the same as loving.) He doesn't care about you, which means, he's not into loving you. You have to love yourself first to be able to love him. You have to be caring towards yourself, and for self-love, leave. You can't get water out of a stone. Don't waste your time! There's a lot of fish in the sea. Life doesn't make mistakes!

  • 1 decade ago

    We mistake it for love. We convince ourselves that it's love. Really it's simply attraction or lust. If he doesn't care about you, you must try to get over him ASAP or it's just going to cause unnecessary pain. Good Luck and Happy New Year!

  • 1 decade ago

    Because your human.An sometime's are heart leads us in the wrong direction.Even though we know it's not goner work out,We tend to cling to the hope that maybe he will someday feel the same way.

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  • 1 decade ago

    obviously u wastin ur time.if he doesnt care then move on n be w/ sum1 dat does care.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    If he doesn't like you then it's pointless. Get over it and get a new guy!

  • 1 decade ago

    It's possible, but I woulnd't advise it. Just forget him

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    care about him

  • Tellie
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    1 decade ago

    it's not love , it's infatuation, or plain desire , with no real sourse to apply it too .

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    stupidity

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