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Anonymous asked in Family & RelationshipsMarriage & Divorce · 1 decade ago

could it be???

here it goes ..this is the worst new years ever!!! my husbands sister gave this girl my husbands and i's email and i checked it and she is trying to meet my husband and go out ...my husband dont know about the email and i dont know who it is ..his sister keeps giving out our email and phone numbers out and they started calling ..his sister tryed to break us up 3 yrs ago and now that we've been married for 2 yrs he never did nothing wrong im just so tierd of this ..could she be trying to break us up again?? im pregnant and im going nuts ..he's at work right now an im getting worried i feel like im going off the deep end

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his sister is like 800 pounds and im around 130 . i dont think she would feel it if i kicked her *** i mite get cake frosting on me..

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  • 1 decade ago
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    Trust your husband. You can't control his sister, and neither can he. Let her do whatever she is going to do. As long as your husband doesn't act on it, no harm.

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  • 1 decade ago

    There's a couple of possibilities here.

    Unfortunately, you don't have much to do with the solution, unless you get along splendidly with your mother in law...

    This issue is really between your husband and your sister, Or, your sister in law, and her incredibly underdeveloped level of maturity.

    My suggestion would be to save the email, then print it. Talk to your husband, and implore him to either explain a few thing about reality to his sister, or perhaps a good spanking will do.

    If you married a normal well-adjusted male, he should take care of the problem. If not, take it to a higher level. There's nothing wrong with going to his mommy if after you realize you married a wimp who couldn't box his way out of a paper bag, even if you provided scissors.

    Since you did infer that this is a re-run, that doesn't sound like the case, though.

    Also, changing telephone numbers and email addresses is not a solution. A sister will always have a way of getting a hold of his brother, and the sister will only look at that as a victory, and besides, running away (which is how that wil be viewed) is never an empowering alternative.

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  • 1 decade ago

    First of all keep ur cool. And gear up for a planned onslaught. Plan it and use the same techniques of harrassment which she is using on her but refine them a little more and see the results. Do it tit for tat and sit down and note down in ur mind the weaknesses she posssesses and try to find from ur husband in a casual way abt her chequered past. In this fite it is important to keep ur husband out of it and take help of few trusted friends who have weathered with u. Dont expect to change her and she is doing it for a purpose or just coz she gets a kick is not the matter. Save ur house and try to be extra polite with her. U can give poison to an enemy only after u make him/her a friend and even if u give nectar to an enemy he/she wont take. So moral of this is be cool, polite and start the fight. She has done it and its ur right to answer back. Sword is a sword. It has to do its duty. If it goes in wrong hands, it creates destruction but in right hands. it protects. That is true for anger, sex, pride, greed, passions.

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  • 1 decade ago

    Reply (for your husband ) stating you're married, about to become a father, and not interested.......to any and all current emails in his email box, including his sister. Then change his email and do NOT give it to his sister. Let it remain that she know ONLY the ole email........And cancel that ole one. Do the same with your phone #. Then get it changed to an unlisted #. Then give his sister a phone call, and give her a piece of your mind. Firmly advise her that you will take a restraining order out against her, if she continues to play her silly game with YOUR life!

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    disconnect the internet. I did that when I found out he was going on dating sites. I pay the bill, and I'm not paying it so he can cheat on me. But then I have portable internet that I can move anyplace I want. He hasn't seen the internet for 4 months. And guess what? No fights! Men are all pigs and just can't resist looking at porn constantly and blaming it on us.

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  • 1 decade ago

    Be cool, email this that You are sorry that your husband is not interested with her,that he is only interested with you and your baby You would be glad to go out with her to buy her a coffee or pop,or lunch,' cause your husband does'nt want to be bother to go out w/ any one except his wife. Try this tactic.

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  • 1 decade ago

    Tell him about what concerns you, just let him know that your not trying to put a strain in their relationship. His sister should respect that is brother is married and not available for dating or anything. He's about to be a family man, what other signal do you need to read it plain and clear he's not available?

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    woah... his sister sounds like a bi*ch. shes definitely tryin to cause you some problems girl. I think that you need to call her and ask her what her problem is. I also think that you need to make sure you man is really workin when he says he is and reply to those emails with a note from yourself sayin hello... this is his wife who happens to be_ months pregnant I would surely appreciate it if you would no longer try to wreck my home.

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  • Liz
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    1 decade ago

    Change your email address and your phone number and don't give the new ones to your sister-in-law.

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    I wouldve emailed that girl back and told her you were his wife and that you are expecting!!.........If they are actually calling and emailing your hubby, then they must be under the assumption that he is single, or they have no shame!!!!!

    I would definatly get a new email and a silent number, and dont give it to her.........

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