I have a little crush on my best friend. What do I do?

Okay...I have a really good friend and I kinda have a crush on him. I think he does too, but if I ask him out I'm afraid it will ruin our friendship if he says no. I need advice!

Update:

Hey, I'm 13, okay? Keep it PG!

Update 2:

Oh yeah...and my step-mom thinks he's gay so I'm trying to prove her wrong too.

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago
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    Hit on your best friend. Good luck.

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  • 1 decade ago

    Okay....just ask him..."do you think people that have been friends for a long period could turn into something more than just friends?....Or do you think the risk of ruining a good friendship would be too great?" Just see what his response is....don't be afraid to feel the waters.

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  • 1 decade ago

    I've been there before, not too long ago. My best advice is Be careful. If you ask him out make sure it's in a situation neither of you'll get hurt... And don't let it affect your friendship if he says no. I don't speak to my exbest friend anymore over that exact situation... so yeah.

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  • 1 decade ago

    You should strip naked and throw yourself at him. If he refuses you he must be Gay. Not really....If the two of you have a good friendship going, savor it. If it is meant to be that you become more then friends, he has to get the idea himself. If you try to force this idea on him you stand a good chance of losing on a great thing.

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  • 1 decade ago

    Alright that easy jst tell ur best friend u have a crush on him bc he might have a crush on u i mean if u dnt take a risk the u might never get a chance so it while u can!!!!!!!!

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  • 1 decade ago

    whats the problem? friends go out all the time. if your worried about ruining the relationship let him make the moves.. you just provide him with the means and opportunity to do so..

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    You continue being just friends but listen clasely to what he says and try to decide if he has feelings for you. He may just be feeling the same way as you are.

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  • Liz
    Lv 7
    1 decade ago

    Stick with the friendship. You could spoil everything by trying to make it something else.

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  • 1 decade ago

    ive been in that position b4.there was a guy i liked so i got his sn and became friends w/ him.then we got closer and closer and i didnt wanna ask him out cuz i didnt think he liked me.then at the beginning of the school year he asked me out and said he liked me all of last year.i could of asked him out last year but it wouldnt have been the same.im glad i didnt.he didnt hardly knew me but now he does and we've gone out for 3 1/2 months.dont rush anything.

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  • 1 decade ago

    well this will happen 2 any one once in a whyle so i say u ask him who he likes first and if he acts shy or wont tell u or asks u 2 tell him who u like first then odds are he likes u.

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  • 1 decade ago

    what do u mean ask him out, like on a date? Don't ask him out. keep it cool. it's ok to crush on him and it's really nice if he likes u too...but don't rush things ahead. It's definitely gonna ruin your friendship if u rush things. I'm sure if he really likes you eventually he'll ask you out. ;) just a lil tip...guys like it wen they're "in charge", know wat im saying. that's all.

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