Is it too aggressive to go to a guys house?

Guy I dated for the first time a few nights ago told me to call him to set up another date. He works during the day and told me that he usually turns his ringer off at night when he goes to bed. He doesnt have voice mail so how do I let him know that I want to see him again? He lives nearby so I could show up but that could seem weird. Our date was great and Im pretty sure he likes me so its not a matter of him avoiding me...he is just hard to reach and he put the pressure on me to set up the next date. Help! :)

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    Maybe leave a note at his house-?

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  • 1 decade ago

    showing up at his house is a little much. continue to call him when u think he might have his ringer on. Sooner or later you will reach him.

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Go for it! Show up on his doorstep around midnight, just to make sure he'll be home.

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  • 1 decade ago

    Not too aggressive, too eager, or idicating of neediness, perhaps. Give it a little time first.

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    He should quit being a wuss and call You himself...men must chase the woman...thats how it works...dont go uninvited..

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  • 1 decade ago

    Yes that would be like borderline stalking

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  • 1 decade ago

    how about calling the afternoon of call him at lunch and make a data of it

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  • 1 decade ago

    be careful if u do end up goin...i did it before u just got to be smart

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  • 1 decade ago

    yes if he didnt invite u over

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  • Joho
    Lv 7
    1 decade ago

    go for it. good luck and have a happy new year.

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