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what is she thinking?

my friend likes me and she thinks im cute but the only problem is that she doesnt want date me (i like her back) why do you think she doesnt want to date me?

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earthly_virgo:she said it ti me that im cute and why do you care if im not or i am....

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago
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    Well, being cute is not the same as being handsome. I mean the girl would express in some different way. Friends are cute, Boyfriends are handsome. I think, at the moment, she is a great friend of yours, consider that if she is able to tell you that you are cute.

    Provide some time, provide some space, ask her out to a friendly place, where there will be more people and she doesn't feel trapped.

    But never push that friendship.

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  • KIMBUR
    Lv 4
    1 decade ago

    i'd say it's one of two things - either theres some reason that she doesnt like you that way not anything inparticular but you know how some people you really like just not like that, or she's thinking she doesnt want to ruin the friendship or loose you if something goes wrong dating wise and thats only because she hasnt learned how awsome it is to have someone thats a best friend and a lover and that it is possible to go back to friends if your mature enough and something hasnt happened well how do I put it sometimes in the end something happens that you no longer care for them as a friend or boyfriend the two kinda go hand in hand you know something even a friend wouldnt do to you, anyways I just think if she wanted to she probly would of jumped on the idea if you did indeed inform her that you like her to I know when I was a teenager when someone like you it was so exciting , good Luck KIM

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    I say this allot ,,,,,, there are plenty of other fish in the pond ,,,,, If this girl doesn't want to date you then there's nothing you can do about it ,,,,, You need to go fishing ,,,, find some one that's fun and exciting to be with ,,,, You need this so called friend of your like you need a broken leg ,,,,, Remain friends with her if you want but quit puffing her ego up and show her she's not your only hope ,,,, She's playing head games with you and she's getting off on it ,,,,, Stop letting her humiliate you ,,,, She's making you look like a fool and probably everyone else sees it but you ,,,, Evidently your being cute isn't enough for her to want to date you and she gets off everytime she can turn you down ,,,, Do you enjoy being a play thing or made to look like a fool ?? ,,,,

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  • 1 decade ago

    Her parents might not let her.... umm... she might not feel like you're the guy that would fit her even if you're cute... sometimes that happens with me...

    But maybe she doesnt want to get involved with you or has heard some things about you... I'm not sure.. you can never really know what goes on inside that girls mind...

    Unless she speaks her mind haha.... sometimes we dont' want to hear whats on her mind though lol...

    Blessings hope that helps

    Have a great new years eve!

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  • 1 decade ago

    Difficult one if you have entered the catergry of a "friend". If you do like her then you should step back. Let her see that you're cool and handsome guy that other girls like.

    The next move is to be honest with her and let her know how you feel. Hopefully she feels the same and you could give it a chance.

    Good luck!

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  • 1 decade ago

    Your friend may like you, but may value your friendship to the point of which she does not want to risk losing it if you two were to date and then not work out.

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  • 1 decade ago

    Because you are just friends and it is hard for her to see you as anything else other than as a friend. Don't expect this to change and don't risk loosing a good friend because you want something you may never be able to have.

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  • Boss
    Lv 6
    1 decade ago

    Happend to me too, there is nothing you can do , execpt be paitent, i mean as long as she likes you, you still have a chance. Just dont rush her or force her, KEEP IT COOL. Just relax. I messed up , beacuse i was thinking why she doesnt want to go out, dont be like me. GOOD LUCK :)

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  • 1 decade ago

    She just wants to be friends and maybe not ruin a good friendship.

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    maybe she vaule's the friendship. sometimes when friends date an it doesn't work out then not only do you lose a girl but you also lose a friend.

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