I like this guy but he is dating my friend, what do i do?

well i really like him and sometimes i think that he might like me too, we flirt and talk and stuff, and i like him sooooooo much, but i have no idea what to do, how do i let him know i like him, without hinting it to his girlfriend!

Update:

well i failed to mention that she constantly flirts with other guys and that she's not even a good friend, she talks about me behind my back, and told lots of people my secrets! This guy is soooooo nice and she is so mean to him

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago
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    push your friend off a cliff and keep him for yourself

  • 1 decade ago

    if his girlfriend really is your friend once she find out that u and her man is talking behind her back then she is not going to trust you again. however, i think that you should tell your friend how you feel about her boyfriend, after you do you can let the guy know u like him. by doing this the guy will chose who he likes more. or u can try getting his number and tell him over the phone, but u should know that your freindship will be at risk.

  • 1 decade ago

    I would hold steady until the relationship is over and then wait a little longer after that .. ask your friend if its okay if you date him.. and if she's okay with it then go for it.. but don't try and break them apart, if you did that, you would probably regret it and you don't want that to happen... Ask God when and if he wants you to talk to the guy you like.... the perfect timing and everything...

    Just make sure that this guy is a good guy to date... Look at his personality and learn from your friend if he's truly a good guy to go after. if he is then go for it, if not, then don't...

    Blessings hunny you can do it!

    Have a great new years eve!

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    If he's already got a girlfriend then he's off limits ,,,,, What's wrong with you ,,,,, Would you like it if someone tried to muscle in on a relationship you were having with someone ,,,,, What would you think of the person that tried doing that to you ??,,,, If you claim to be this girls friend then she doesn't need any enemies ,,,,, Ever heard of the term back stabber ?

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    you should not date your friends boyfriend if you value your friendship... and if he is the type of guy that would flirt with his girlfriends friend than he is not a good person... he will do the same with you.

    Source(s): just a thought
  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    hope you're not gonna suffer if you lose the friendship with the girl. if thats the case just tell him. if you want to be with him, let him know and see what he does. but don't be the other woman. you want to come first in his life, so at some point,before things get physical, tell him its gotta be either her, or you.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Ask your girlfriend if she wouldn't mind sharing him once in a while. Tell her you'll take care of her just a much as you'll take care of him. If she agrees then you all can be in heaven. If it works out send us all pictures of your group sex. Happy New Year!

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    GET OVER IT and respect yourself and your friend. wouldnt you feel bad if your friend was trying to steal your bf from you?

    she's your friend!! she's gonna be around A LOT longer than that dood. if you wreck your friendship over some "cute boy" you're seriously gonna regret it

  • 1 decade ago

    Does anybody want to know why guys cheat? She wants him to cheat on her friend. I read a couple of posts by women who were not opposed to this.

  • 1 decade ago

    do not touch, guys are 1 in a million, no offense to any guys, but friends are hard to come by, and really no guy is worth that, unless she isn't a really good friend, then go for it, but realize she ain't gonna be like, "it's okay we can still be friends"

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    sweetheart that's a no no. trust me you call her your friend then you have to stop looking at her man in that way. how would you feel if she did it to you. i've got 2 best friends an thats an issue we never had.we never cross that line thats a friend.

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