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How do you spice up your marriage when you have no money to go out?

28 Answers

  • 1 decade ago
    Favorite Answer

    role play, act out funny sexy coversations you see on tv, phone sex, christen every room and/or horizontal piece of furniture,(note safe sex...when you have no money for outings you may not have money for munchkins ;) --been there done that)

    make a rule to make out for x minutes (10, 20, 30) without touching genitals, make sex coupons, make iou coupons - IOU one 10 minute backrub, write poetry for one another, read poetry to one another, look online at community outings that are free, go the library and rent books about learning a new language together or knitting, look at youtube or dumbstuff and laugh at idiots together, prank phone call one another using soundboards from ebaum's world (note one another - pranking others is well illegal)

    my husband and I have never had so much fun as when we did when we were poor-- we still have poor times but we look don't dread them. We appreciate the 'rich' moments...(er seconds)...alot more 10 years of for richer or poorer and a lifetime to go...

  • 1 decade ago

    One of the best ways to spice up a marriage is when you both go "through the fire." When you are older you will know That having money isn't where its at. You will look upon the hard times as a learning lesson to enjoy the things you have now, that you didn't have then. We are in a spoiled generation. Do you ever consider the heartaches of those who are left behind by the loss of a loved one? Doesn't it seem rather selfish when you consider that your parents might have had hard times too? What do you think money might do for you?

    Source(s): Henry O
  • 1 decade ago

    You do not need money to spice up your marriage !! All you need is a lot of love for each other and love does not cost money. Be loving, compassionate and very open about your feelings for each other, that will be enough to spice up any marriage. Best of luck to you both and have a very Happy New Year.

    Source(s): Just me
  • 1 decade ago

    Spice it up in the bedroom. Spice it up while watching tv or a movie together. Showing affection and love is just as good as going out to dinner. Appreciate the little things in life that mean so much to someone. Spice it up everywhere! Don't be shy! :)

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    A couple of bottles of wine, a scented candle in the room, a sensuous CD, and a willing partner will spice up any evening at home. Turn the lights down low and enjoy.

  • Shay
    Lv 4
    1 decade ago

    Spicing up your marriage doesn't always mean spending money. You watch movies together, cooking in the nude or just try no things sexually. But money does not always have to be involved. Just be creative.

  • 1 decade ago

    Implement "Date Night". Once a week, try something imaginative. It doesn't have to involve sex, but hopefully will lead there :).

    Date Night ideas:

    a picnic on the living room floor.


    play your favorite movie on mute and lip synch the script.

    bake cookies.

    blind fold each other and do "taste-tests".

    give each other massages or facials.

    read to each other from the newspaper or a magazine.


  • 1 decade ago

    Cook him dinner and wear a really short skirt with no under garments, when you bend over to get the food out make sure he sees the goodies and he'll ravish you instead of the dinner.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Take baths or showers together by candle light and soft music. Buy a rose or two and spread the petals in your bed.

  • 1 decade ago

    first of all, if you married for money, you have a problem. other than that, be creative. i mean: do what ever it take to turn your partner on. you don't have to have money to have one hell of a time. it just takes an active imagination to spark an interest in your spouse. without an imagination he/she will find someone else who will make things interesting

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