As Embarrassing as it may seem,how do you stop falling for someone of the same sex? It is hard and I want a...

Christian life a way from this. Could or would you help me?

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  • Jonny
    Lv 5
    1 decade ago
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    You are a mammal put on this earth to do one simple thing. Procreate with an opposite sexed species. Quit being a disgrace to our race.

  • 1 decade ago

    Choosing to like someone is both a conscious and sub-conscious decision. If you really do not want to fall for a particular person you can (I believe) stop yourself, but you may regret this decision, and always wonder if you made the right choice. While there are many sections of Christianity, I have read that to think something is not a sin, it is only a sin to act upon these thoughts. Personally, however, I feel you should like whoever you feel inclined to, wheter same sex or not. Good Luck, and stay true to yourself!

    Source(s): I grew up in a Christian home/school
  • 1 decade ago

    You cant change the way you feel. But if you beleive in your heart that this is wrong ask god to change your heart hes the only 1.Love is hard S*IT life is hard and we go through things that when we were five we never did you just have to ask the father to bless you and keep you strong and not to fall into this DISEASE we call temptation. Hes and understanding and forgiving god Once you ask him he will definelty 4give you. And who are we 2 judge so dont worry about what any of us have to say justtake it 2 the master and he will work it out

    Source(s): the bible
  • No matter who it is, if you have a problem where you find yourself thinking romantically of another, the only way around it that I can see is distance.

    With that said; I'm not sure that you need to prevent yourself from falling in love. As far as I can tell, even the strictest interpretations of the Bible say one cannot have sex with another person of the same sex - not that you cannot be romantically inclined toward them.

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  • 1 decade ago

    I guess that no one can actually change the way that you feel about someone but, first it has to start with you! If you feel that you really wanna stop looking at people at the same sex, sexually then focus on the opposite sex! Try 2 set up dates and maybe people other people can change your mind!

  • 1 decade ago

    A lot of this comes from girls not having a good connection with their mother's or bad connections with their fathers. They meet someone that makes them feel good and they really love them. There is nothing wrong with loving someone of the same sex, just realize what it is.

    Guys meet older guys that are like father figures and really like them and being around them. From time to time they are afraid that it is something gay and it doesn't have to be.

    Realize that it is a small malfunction in the way you think. Pray about it and don't get yourself in a bad position.

    You not bad or sick, perverted or twisted, you have just been raised with something broken in your life.

  • ___
    Lv 5
    1 decade ago

    Don't be embarassed to be who you are. Don't hate yourself because of who you are or who you fall for. If you want to be a Christian be a Christian. No where in the King James Version does it mention that god has a problem with women lying down with other women.

    Be good to yourself. Be good to others. Love who ever your heart tells you to love no matter what the cost.

  • Khandi
    Lv 4
    1 decade ago

    Just pray about it. I don't know your age, but it could be a phase you are going through.

    It's OK to find the female body attractive, with all the curves and sexiness...

    I wouldn't try it (might like and never get married.) ;)

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    The same as a male and female relationship I suppose.

    Move on and find someone else?

  • 1 decade ago

    well some christian religions say that its not that bad, I would worry about it, go for it and have a sexy bisexual life style

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