my mother told me she'd wait for me outside the store then when i said okay, she got mad...?

my mother was in the store with me and she told me that i had to hurry up, so i said okay. and then she said, 'well i need a cigarette' and then when i said okay i'll meet you out there, she got mad. i'm confused, she told me i could meet her outside and then she got mad when i did what she said. i'm so confused at this.

Update:

i love my mother dearly, it's just that this confused me.

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  • 1 decade ago
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    If this behavior was odd coming from your mother, then it was most likely that she just wanted a cig real bad, and it was making her grumpy.

    One way to find out for sure, would be to sit down and talk to your mother. She is the only one that really knows why she got upset.

  • 1 decade ago

    She is trying to control you. she was ready to go and she wanted you to be ready too. Mothers can get that wasy and you need to nip it in the bud. Next time she does anything like that tell her that you can leave her home next time or she can come alone next time, you just can't jump every time she says so...that is just unreasonable. If she gets nad that easily it could also be something ellse bothering her, ask. what's wrong mom? You got mad at me for nothing and I don't know why are you having problems that I don't know about? Then she'll have to talk about it. Good luck.

  • 1 decade ago

    She was trying to tell you that she wanted to GO when she said you needed to hurry up. That was the time when you should have said, "ok, let's just go." When she said she needed a cig, she was showing her frustration, not using that as a way to give you a few more minutes.

  • 1 decade ago

    Just count it off as grumpiness if she isnt always like this. Or you could just show her your question (I know she'll love the part where you said you love her). and maybe she will explain. Shes a lucky mother by the way, you sound like a caring daughter.

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  • celi
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    1 decade ago

    you supposed to look after your mom even if she insist be strict when it comes to her if you love her dearly, two it's the end of the year people leave every think behind and get ready for the 2007 year yahoo.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Is this how she normally behaves? If so, maybe she has a problem.

    She wanted you to leave with her. That's why she was annoyed. That don't make it reasonable, but that's what was going on. You need to learn to read her signals better.

  • 1 decade ago

    Nice thing about mom's is you'll be forgiven and forgive by tomorrow.

    Wait until your married. This stuff happens all the time.

  • 1 decade ago

    Maybe she was just having a bad day. Just brush it off. Happy New Year

  • 1 decade ago

    Hello she's your mother, thats what mothers do.They get upset over silly stuff, mothers say one thing BUT really mean something else....I know mine does.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Yeah it's confusing, moms are like that!

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