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How do u get guys to notice u?

Anyone out there that knows that secert i'll be ever so happy. plz answer me.

18 Answers

  • 1 decade ago
    Favorite Answer

    Be yourself. Be confident and stick up for yourself. Hold your head high and never let someone tell you that you can't do something. Be outgoing and make conversation with everyone! Not just certain people or just girls or just boys. Good luck!


  • Boss
    Lv 6
    1 decade ago

    well, this should help :) GOOD LUCK

    Get a new look. Don't change who you are, just try something different. Try a new hairstyle, new clothes, etc.

    Be yourself. Everyone probably says this, but it's true! No guy wants a girl to pretend she is something she's not.

    Don't cuss. It turns guys off most of the time.

    Smile. Whether closed-mouth or open-mouth, do it. It'll say to everyone, "Wow, she's a nice person!"

    Flirt a little - not like crazy, but a little bit here and there.

    Try to be around him often, such as sitting near him.

    Show off a little when you're around your friends, but not a lot because then he might think you're just silly.

    Try to make lots of eye contact - and when you do, smile! (Guys often don't look at girls in the eyes, so looking into theirs when they're talking shows them that you are interested in them).

    Go up to him and talk to him. Try to get to know him a little by discussing things you have in common. You could even compliment him. Even if you just say he has a nice shirt or a cool watch; it shows him that you're into him.

    Tell him how you really feel about him once you get comfortable talking together.

    Be a brave person and stand up for who you are, and what you believe in. This will catch his attention, and his respect.

    Source(s): wikihow
  • 1 decade ago

    You have to stand out. Don't just be part of the croud. Talk to them, make the first move. Most woman want men to make the first move but at the same time most men want woman to make the first move. So just get up and talk to them ask them a question about age, family, interests, occupation, or education. Maybe accidently bump into them so you can appoligize and see if they show interest towards you after that. Maybe a new haircut or outfit will help. Good Luck!

  • 1 decade ago

    A real man, and I will repeat myself, a REAL MAN will notice you for, well, you.

    Love comes in all ways, you never know where or when it may come, but it can be right infront of you and you may not even notice.

    Many say looks can help to get noticed, I truly believe that if you are a plain jane, and proud of it, a man will see that confidence in you through your attitude and the way you carry yourself.

    If you are a girl who puts on a pound of make up and think by changing your looks all together through the stuff, will only attract guys that only want one thing and then give them nightmares when they wake up next to you in the morning.

    So what is my point? Just be yourself and be real, the Right Man for you will notice you.

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Guys love strong confidence in women...just go up to him and talk to him like you do anyone else.Be down to Earth!!! Show him your true personality, then if he likes you, he likes the real you. If that doesn't make him notice you, you can just move on to someone that truly is worthy of your affections.

  • 1 decade ago

    well - first, don't use screen names like "loserinluv"... it's self-depricating. Respect yourself and others will respect you. Do things that you enjoy. Laugh often. Be happy. Don't be needy - it's a turn-off. Build yourself up by knowing what qualities you want that can be learned and practiced.

    Find out yourself what type of guy you want to attract. Find out what they want. Then become that type of woman.

    Stand tall. Be happy. Don't wait for a guy or prince charming to rescue you and make you happy. Guys find a happy woman attractive, especially the type of woman that respects herself and knows what she wants. And of course, if she respects herself, she will automatically make herself look attractive by her posture, and hygine, and by wearing clothing that compliments her beauty.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Honestly, the key to getting a guy's attention is to pay them no mind. Don't go looking for attention and don't try to hard.

    When I'm walking down the street, I don't even look at anyone, I just look at the path ahead and the guys hit on me.

  • LIZA
    Lv 4
    1 decade ago

    A healthy smile. Bleach your teeth. A clean face will bring attention.

  • 1 decade ago

    you need to have a lot of confidance, act as if you dont care about guys or if they like you. dont be mean or stuck up. act very down to earth. care about your appereance and hygene. be very nice but not a puch over. try getting along with everyone. dont talk about people specially to guys laugh a lot dont complain. stuff like that

  • Bella
    Lv 4
    1 decade ago

    Be yourself and it will come and if your that crazy to get one then find someone you truly like and write them a note. I know thats like second grade or just confront them.

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