Am I too mean??

I cheated on my b/f, and I really want to be open and be seen with the other guy. I am going to my current b/f's house for a new years party. Is it too mean to get him alone and break-up with him?? My new b/f is going too(they are friends). Is it wrong to kiss my new b/f at midnight??


I just hate lying to him.

Update 2:

Is it bitchy to tell the truth??

Update 3:

I have known the guy for a while but started dating him around halloween. I have slept with him. Should I tell my b/f this too??

Update 4:

Will my b/f ask me to leave his party?? Should I go all the way in his house with his friend tonight?

Update 5:

Is he gonna lose his friend over this??

18 Answers

  • 1 decade ago
    Favorite Answer

    Yep,anyways I don't have the right to judge U.But did your b/f worth it,that U cheated on him.Does that guy really loves U? Do U really love him ?

    If U kiss that other guy in your current b/f house,it's disrespectful and don't be surprised if he calls U out of your name.

    Do U relly wanna do this ? Think twice?

    Ask yourself why U did cheat on him ? But If U have good reason,U'll figure out.

    Source(s): Me.I did cheat on my b/f and I regreted it because my b/f was loving me so bad and now I miss him
  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    I wouldn't do it, tonight, that would be cruel and inconsiderate. I would go do something else with the new bf. Don't be cruel and evil and ruin your boyfriends night.

    What happens if when you do this, your old boyfriend beat's the living crap out of your new boyfriend or for that matter shoots or stabs him.

    My cousin did this very same thing 4 years ago on Christmas eve, her boyfriend blew her head off with a shotgun. she's dead now. She didn't think this would happen, thought it was rather amusing and funny just before her head exploded all over the living room wall of the house where the party was taking place.

    Her boyfriend just snapped.

  • 1 decade ago

    so you're going to go to your boyfriends house for a party. break up with him and kiss his friend at your current boyfriends house. wow. i wouldn't call it mean but i would call it immature and selfish. there's nothing wrong with breaking up with someone you don't want to be with but cheating and getting with your boyfriends friend is a little... disgusting. i hope you aren't planning on kissing some other man in your current boyfriends house. that is disrespectful and rude.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Mean and cruel. You might as well celebrate new years real good and cheat on both of them tonight, then go to bed with both of them later. You have the morals of an alley cat.

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  • 1 decade ago

    When your all alone due to being used, then you will have all the time in the world to better examine the misfortune and misery you bring to the world,

    To all the Lady's out there, this is why we men act the way we do!

  • Bella
    Lv 4
    1 decade ago

    Wow hmmm. Well its not mean to kiss your new b/f at midnight. Its not mean to break-up with your b/f but it is mean to be seen with the other guy in public that means you ain't got no shame. Overall your not mean your just doing your thang but your still breaking someones heart.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Cheating is bad enough...

    Don't rub your old b/f's face in it..

    Doing it at the same party with your new b/f is very

    thoughtless, inconsiderate and mean.

    Very low class...

    What do you think your new b/f is going to think

    about your behavior ?

    He already knows you are a cheater and can't be trusted.

  • 1 decade ago

    It would be mean to let your current bf believe you 2 have a future in the new year.

  • 1 decade ago

    well if you haven't told your old boyfriend that you want to be with the other guy then well... gee this is a tough one.... yeah but he will be crushed probably hate you and the other guy if you break up with him on new year's but thats life

  • 1 decade ago

    No...take it to the next base even. I cheated on my boy and he was so busy trying to find somebody else that it didn't even matter cuz we were right next to eachother having it.

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