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im dating an nigerian guy i do not trust him. he lies often does anyone out there have this same issue?

24 Answers

  • micho
    Lv 7
    1 decade ago
    Favorite Answer

    lol i am a male but i think if that guy lie to u alot and u dont trust him then find another guy who u will trust him more

  • 1 decade ago

    Yes I do . I was dating a Nigerian guy for only a few months. He lied saying he was getting his masters degree and worked full time so he couldnt spend that much time with me. At the time it was ok because I was in school as well.Now the only number he gave me was the work number which at the time was fine because I didnt give him a number at all. Well we talked during the day on and off but at night we were both in school or so I thought. Yes the red flags were going off everywhere. I walked away never calling him again.

  • 1 decade ago

    I have to agree with what some people have said. He can be a purple jellyfish a liar will always lie. I think there are two reasons why people lie 1) To impress 2) To cover up some secret. I think he may be doing it for both reasons and you should narrow down which which reason he is lying for. If he is lying to impress than perhaps you can salvage the relationship, but if he is covering up--you need to get rid of him.

  • venom!
    Lv 6
    1 decade ago

    Honey... you're dating the WRONG Nigerian guy.

    If he lies? and you don't trust him? then guess what? he is not that into you! Sorry, but its true.

  • 1 decade ago

    okey. he's didnt really have to add that. people find it offensive whether you mean it or not.

    liars are liars. if he continuously lies then give him the boot. you can stand for that or your showing him that you can be treated like that and he can keep doing it.

    GOOD LUCK!!!

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  • 1 decade ago

    If he lies,chances are he will keep on doing it.You need to get out of that relationship.I know I was in one like it before.I realized that my ex was lying about everything except for his name.I believe he was a compulsive liar.

  • 1 decade ago

    Ya think maybe you wasting all your time on a computer, playing on the internet may be giving him the time he needs to find a REAL girlfriend that will pay attention to him?

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    What does him being Nigerian have to do with it? You sound racist I hope and I'm sure your not. Some guys in general are just untrustworthy, it has nothing to do with skin color or culture. Please learn to see pass someone's skin color and see their heart...

  • 1 decade ago

    All guys lie... Not just Nigerians... Just enjoy the sex... Aren't they supposed to be the most "well equipped"??? ;)

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