I need some help with girl prob and some life probs. I dont know why im
writing to u even if i dont know u, but hope u can help me. I've been
confused for over 6 months now or maybe longer.
First, I liked this girl for over a year or more. Well like the situation
in the site, she is 1 year older than me. And im currently in Form 4 now,
which means she is sitting for her SPM ( malaysian Exam) this year. Well let
me start the whole thing off. We started to know each other in January. We
spent alot of time together, though most of it was with other ppl. In Feb,
during valentines, she gave me a gift. Well myself, i dont really get
involved in love life at this age. But she changed me ( even b4 the
gift). I didnt do anything that time as i wasnt sure if my feelings for her
is real. So i just left it and we became really close frens.We chatted on9
for hours and hours.Then maybe cause i didnt give her something for
valentines, she was kinda close this other guy as i see it, they were
together as when we talked on9, she kept mentioning his name. Well at that
time, i thought i shud just backoff from relationships, so i started
avoiding her.But my feelings were still there for her.1 time, i even walked
her home and we had fun time together alone. She even gave me a
nickname....a cute 1. We cared for each other alot.And in skool, though we
are not in the same class, i know she always keep an eye for me......SHE
STARES AT ME WHEN I ACT I DONT KNOW SHE IS LOOKING....she even told me i
have a specialy place in her heart.....
Thats when the other probs came in. First for my exams, I didnt do very
well, i did only maybe fairly well( not the normal me). I got like 12th in
class. Then there was this really long period of time were i didnt talk to
her for the reason i thought she was with some1 else.well it kinda hurts
when she mentions guys name in front of me. I dont know why......During that
time aswell, i experienced a downfall. I was elected as head prefect in my
school. I shud had been happy but i heard many rumours stating i was second
choice or thihngs like i dont deserve it. Well i was really depressed and i
still am. This election thing happened in july.
In August, I think its been 2 months since i made any contact with the
girl. I decided i cant go on thinking bout her anymore as it affected my
studies badly. So 1 day, I asked her out telling her i want to sort things
out with her. She agreed. That time, I finally told her everything, the
misunderstandings( why i avoided her.....she knew i avoided her ), and i
even told her i like her. I dont know why but when we met up she was afraid
to let her dad see us together. She said she did like me but not now. I said
its ok......Later on9 on the same day, i talked to her. I asked her what she
feels about me now.She said im her close and good fren but im diff from
other ppl as i have a special place in her heart. Then she said that place
was empty when i avoided her. She also said that i was in that place since
we met as in got close. I dont know if all that she said was true or was it
just to make me feel better? Oh, i forgot, her reason was that we both have
the same principles, thats why we wont further our relationship. Our
principles are not starting relationships when we are in schooling.Well it
was true, i did say that a lnog time ago and she remembered it.
Since that day, I tried to get her off my mind. But the way she treats
me, is totally diff from how she treats other ppl. Thats why im confused.I
really hope u can help me solve these 2 problems... I really need advice and
support, well i cant tell my parents these things.....I really dont know if
she likes me, and im losing my confidence bit by bit, day by day bcoz of
these 2 problems.
Well thats all i can say for now, i hope to meet u on9 some day or plz reply
me, ineed to solve this quick. Im also worried as she is leaving skool next
year. There are loads of things i like to share, like some of our convos
on9..just add me in msn. Hope u can reply me ASAP...
- Anonymous1 decade agoFavorite Answer
hunny, to me it seems like she really does like you otherwise she wouldn't be saying that she has a special place in her heart for you. and if she said she likes you, it means that she does want to be with you. you just need to be very honest with her and ask her where you stand with her. tell he you want her to be your girlfriend and not just friends. its seems like you're falling in love with this girl and i'm sure she feels the same way for you.
- rossignolLv 43 years ago
properly you think of appropriate to the guy all the time. every time you spot him you experience tickles on your abdomen. You get very fearful around him. you pick to do something to maintain him satisfied and you experience like your interior the clouds. of direction don't be fooled by utilising a crush they have just about the comparable warning signs yet you will understand while it truly is love. that's a deep, stable feeling which you would be able to no longer do away with.
- smeezlemeLv 51 decade ago
Boy! That was long!!!!! I really don't think she's ready and I think you should persue something so on and off again.
- 1 decade ago
way too long.