My Boyfriend and My Best Friend...?

My boyfriend and my best friend despise eachother. There is no other way to put it. I think it's because they both hate that i love them both the same and split my feelings in half, instead of just wanting to be with them and only them. I can't seem to understand why this is happening to me! Please give me some advice...

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  • 1 decade ago
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    i had the exact same thing happen to me..the first thing you gotta do is rethink your feelings for the both of them..

    if you still want to keep with your boyfriend,you have no other choice than to tone down the relationship with your best friend..

    when this happened to me..i realized that i'd rather spend time with my best friend than my boyfriend...through that i realized that if i'd rather spend time with my best friend than my boy friend that some thingf must definitly be wrong..so i broke up with my boy friend..

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  • 1 decade ago

    I have the same problem but I am the friend that hates my best friend boyfriend but its because he started making lies about me that I did. I dont really hate him because He makes my girl happy so my advice would be to just see them at different times. Thats what my girl does and it really works out for the best good luck!!!!!

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  • 1 decade ago

    Make your boyfriend your best friend and you will not have the problem, but seriously if she really was your best friend she would learn to like him just because you did, and if really loves you he would try to like her as well. Try sitting both of them down seperatly and asking them from the bottom of your heart to try to learn to like each other. Then if they say they will do it for you then you know that they both love you and both want to be with you! Then you should be set!

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  • 1 decade ago

    This happened to me too. It depends if your friend is a guy b/c it all depends if he is a guy than he loves u and despises your bf b/c he can't have u. Or if its a girl than she wants u all to herself its like gr.2 all over again b/c it happens when your bff found a new person and the friend gets jealous.

    Source(s): Me and my friends.
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  • 1 decade ago

    Some people are just jealous of the time you spend with anyone else. You should talk to them and tell them how you feel. Tell them you have the time to spend with both of them, but that you wish they could get along with each other.

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  • 1 decade ago

    Your best friend is the one person who knows you best and is most like you. If your best friend does not like your boy friend, it is probably because she/he sees something about the guy you don't. Take a better look at the guy.

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  • 1 decade ago

    When they fight, hold up a sledgehammer over both theyre heads and pretend to have rabies.............I bet they will stop.

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  • 1 decade ago

    i'll choose a boyfriend of course..

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    BF's come and go but BESTFRNDS dont!

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