The Question of Sex?

Okey. Why is it that steady boyfriends always say that they don't really want to have sex every time they meet you, because they love you more and don't want to turn you into their sex obsession/object. Coz the relationship means more than that.. bla.. bla.. bla..

I look at it this way, if my boyfriend die tomorrow, what would be the one thing I regret the most? Not spending the night with him, and share my love with him.. and all that..

I HAVE been told that I have high sex drive, but what's wrong with that?

7 Answers

  • 1 decade ago
    Favorite Answer

    Maybe it depends on how old the relationship is. If you have been together for a LONG time it might be time for a change in strategy. Try something new.

    There is absolutely NOTHING wrong with a high sex drive. When my gf (now wife of many years) and I first started dating she had an extremely high sex drive. But after time if it is the same ol', same ol', things must change (not everything). Locations, styles, etc...

    Give it a shot.

  • 1 decade ago

    Theres nothing wrong with having a high sex drive, just remember that some people dont have a high sex drive. Its all about if you both want sex. Id suggest you find out why he doesnt want sex and see if there is a better reason than the one he has given.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Maybe he is more relaxed and happy with kissing, cuddling and non penetrative sex. Are you rushing him? There's nothing wrong with having a high sex drive, but other acts matter too. Why not spend an evening simply dressing in sexy clothes together?


  • DLG
    Lv 5
    1 decade ago

    There is nothing wrong with you and there's nothing wrong with expressing your love for each other physically. Give him time be playful with him. As for your boyfriend, DOES HE KNOW HOW LUCKY HE IS ; )?

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  • I think he's afraid to ask for it, or he thinks that you will be offended if he goes for it. Dominate him. I'm shy and it's awsome for me when a girl slams me to the bed and begs.

  • 1 decade ago

    You have some undersexed boyfriends. You sound like my kind of woman.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    maybe he is not up to it...either medical condition or because you are a girl.

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