He seems like a guy for me but has a ring on his finger... what should i do?

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  • 1 decade ago
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    i wouldn't touch him but unless he gets a divorce you shouldn't get involved.

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  • 1 decade ago

    Quite the contrary,my dear. If he has a ring on his finger--assuming that it is a wedding ring that is--he is definitely not the guy for you at this particular point in time. As a matter of fact, he is most likely for the person who is wearing the other wedding band. If I were you, I would just move on and look and/or wait for another great guy to come along. There is at least one out there for every woman on Earth, you know.

    Source(s): A voice of optimism
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  • 1 decade ago

    hey babe i know it aint as easy to move on as some of the other guys have told you cause i know how u feel i met this guy and thought he was perfect (he didnt wear his ring at the start) and then one day i found out he was married but because the connection i felt for him was so strong i continued to be his "friend" and anyway we had sex he cheated on his wife, and now i have a broken heart. i realised he wasnt gonna leave her so i asked myself do i really want to be someones affair? Hell NO i am worth so much more than that and so are you so try and leave him behind and tell him if their relationship is broken try and fix it and it they cant fix it then tell him to leave her before he persues you!

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  • 1 decade ago

    You have to find another guy, and there are plenty of them out there. There are guys walking up and down the streets right now. If the guy's married, you won't stand a chance. You risk ruining his marriage and the whole thing will just end in a lot of emotional hurt and legal problems.

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  • 1 decade ago

    If he was the right guy for you, don't you think HE WOULD NOT ALREADY BE MARRIED to someone else?!? And He is already "the guy" for someone else. Morally, I feel, you don't need to be stepping on anyone's toes. This guy is spoken for. Now is not the time. Worry about what's the best for you, and then think about what tragedy you might cause in being the affair.

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    before you make any decisions, first check out the history of the ring.

    *some people put on rings for fun*

    Source(s): my friends
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  • 1 decade ago

    He most likely is a great guy. I bet his wife thinks he is just the guy for her, too. If they seem at least the tiniest bit happy with each other, walk away.

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    You should not be chasing after a man who belongs to another. Remember this, if he is willing to leave his wive or girlfriend for you, he will be willing to leave you for another. This will not make for a lasting relationship. If this is a pattern with you, it may be advisable for you to seek a good counselor to find out why you are attracted to married men. Hope this helps. :)

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  • 1 decade ago

    Nothing. Unless you want to wear a red letter A.

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  • 1 decade ago

    If you didn't put that ring there, he is not a guy for you okay?!

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  • Gray
    Lv 6
    1 decade ago

    Find another. There's plenty of fish in the sea, and plenty of men in the bar.

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