Am i pregnant?

My boyfriend and i had unprotected sex [stupid, and we've stopped having sex] on november 11th. He pulled out in about 1 minute, but i know about the possiblity of pre ejaculate..thats why im worrying. I had no symptoms, except sore breasts leading up to my NORMAL period, then stopping. I also took two tests, one on the 11th and one on the morning of the 12th, at a pregnancy clinic, both were negative.

I still have no real symptoms, occasional tummy aches, but nothing too bad. With all this, should i worry? I had a normal period, No real symptoms, and he didn't ejaculate. Should i worry?


Also, if i am pregnant, i would be about 8 weeks along. What should i look for? Should i be tired, or what? Also, should i be having more or less discharge?

4 Answers

  • 1 decade ago
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    Hi Honey, here are some symptoms of pregnancy, check them and then see your doctor

    Tender, swollen breasts

    One of the early signs of pregnancy is sensitive, sore breasts caused by increasing levels of hormones. The soreness may feel like an exaggerated version of how your breasts feel before your period. Your discomfort should diminish significantly after the first trimester, as your body adjusts to the hormonal changes.


    Feeling tired all of a sudden? No, make that exhausted. No one knows for sure what causes early pregnancy fatigue, but it's possible that rapidly increasing levels of the hormone progesterone are contributing to your sleepiness.

    You should start to feel more energetic once you hit your second trimester, although fatigue usually returns late in pregnancy when you're carrying around a lot more weight and some of the common discomforts of pregnancy make it more difficult to get a good night's sleep

    Nausea or vomiting

    If you're like most women, morning sickness won't hit until about a month after conception. (A lucky few escape it altogether.) But some women do start to feel queasy a bit earlier. And not just in the morning, either — pregnancy-related nausea and vomiting can be a problem morning, noon, or night.

    About half of women with nausea feel complete relief by the beginning of the second trimester. For most others it takes another month or so for the queasiness to ease up.

    Increased sensitivity to odors

    If you're newly pregnant, it's not uncommon to feel repelled by the smell of a bologna sandwich or cup of coffee and for certain aromas to trigger your gag reflex. Though no one knows for sure, this may be a side effect of rapidly increasing amounts of estrogen in your system. You may also find that certain foods you used to enjoy are suddenly completely repulsive to you.

    Abdominal bloating

    Hormonal changes in early pregnancy may leave you feeling bloated, similar to the feeling some women have just before their period arrives. That's why your clothes may feel snugger than usual at the waistline, even early on when your uterus is still quite small.

    Frequent urination

    Shortly after you become pregnant, you may find yourself hurrying to the bathroom all the time. Why? Mostly because during pregnancy the amount of blood and other fluids in your body increases, which leads to extra fluid being processed by your kidneys and ending up in your bladder.

    This symptom may start as early as six weeks into your first trimester and continue or worsen as your pregnancy progresses and your growing baby exerts more pressure on your bladder.

    A missed period

    If you're usually pretty regular and your period doesn't arrive on time, you'll probably take a pregnancy test long before you notice any of the above symptoms. But if you're not regular or you're not keeping track of your cycle, nausea and breast tenderness and extra trips to the bathroom may signal pregnancy before you realize you didn't get your period.

    Your basal body temperature stays high

    If you've been charting your basal body temperature and you see that your temperature has stayed elevated for 18 days in a row, you're probably pregnant

    Good luck.


  • 1 decade ago

    If you had a normal period and you have not had one for 2 months, then yes there is a huge chance!! Why havent you taken another pregnancy test since the 12th? you can by a pregnancy test at the drugstore for 7 dollars and it will clearly detect a pregnancy( it detected mine 3 days before my next expected period). and yes tummy aches are a symptom of pregnancy, that is why i took the test in the first place, becuase of a light cramping the never lead to a period. It would be more helpful if you new the first day of your last period. That way you could determine whether or not you may have been ovulating or soon to ovulate around the 11th. I meen the chances of a guy impregnanting you during one minute of penetration and no ejaculation is very small, but the chances are there and with your symptoms id say you may have been an example of a small chance! GOOD luck , and PLEASE when you wake up tommorw go to the store, buy a pregnancy test, and pee on the stick!

  • 1 decade ago

    I have the same problem like you. I aswell took test which showed up neg and my period is still late. You may be pregnant because if you were intimate the begining of nov you ovulate around the 13-18. But then again you may not be pregnant. I am waiting trying to find out as well. Good Luck

  • 1 decade ago

    At 8 weeks a pregnancy test should have shown a positive if you were pregnant. Going by all things you have said you don't sound pregnant. Relax, the tummy aches are just your nerves.

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