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Anonymous asked in Family & RelationshipsSingles & Dating · 1 decade ago

why is it so impossible to find a woman to love and be loved by her?

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  • 1 decade ago
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    It is not impossible... I have done it. I have the most wonderful woman, and we love each other dearly. What is important is that you respect, honor, and cherish each other, and do not take each other for granted.

    People say don't be picky... that's not true. I wasn't picky, and I spent 16 years in a marriage that slowly went downhill until she began physically and emotionally abusing me.

    It is rare, to be sure... but have faith, keep looking, and you will find your soulmate.

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  • 1 decade ago

    It's your mind set you have to luv self before anyone. If you can't appreciate u, then u have nothing to offer right now. It's sometimes is a journey to b able to look at our self as the person we want to be, bu once you get there It is the best feeling of love you will ever encounter. TRUST. There is a couple more says tell the new years sit down and define yourself to yourself set some short and long term goals for yourself for 07. When u find u and u r happy with u. Cause once I changed my mind set and the way I thought I began to attract a whole different type of men (A MAN) so smile you will be cool!

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Where are you looking?? There are alot of women out there asking where all the good men are at. Are you a good man?? Try being the kind of person you would want to love... what is important to you? Kindness? Cheerfulness? Respectful? Honest? Outspoken? Be that sort of person and you will attract that sort of person. Respect yourself first... and the right woman will come along and respect you and love you. Don't expect it all on the first night either... it takes a while to love someone fully, completely, and totally. It isn't impossible. Just learn to love yourself...and be the kind of person you would want to spend the rest of your life with!!! You'll meet your life partner.

    Source(s): Experience... took me awhile... but it finally happened!!!
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  • 1 decade ago

    Good question. A lot women would ask the same question as in why can't we find a decent guy to love and be loved by him. All I can say is be patient the right person will come along. Good luck and Happy New Year.

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  • 1 decade ago

    Nothing is impossible! Difficult, perhaps!

    I waited 40 years to find the love of my life. Every moment was worth it!

    One day, the perfect person for you will fall into your life! Don't look so hard!

    The Ol' Sasquatch Ü

    Source(s): 700 + years of life! That, and an open mind! Ü
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  • 1 decade ago

    It's not impossible at all. Maybe you are just trying too hard. Sooner or later the "right" one will come along. If you're too anxious to fall in love you might just end up taken when she does... so relax, be yourself and have fun while you're waiting. :)

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    I don't know I'm wondering that myself that's a question I have wanted an answer to for so long. But like most people say never rush love and let it find you never go looking for it.

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  • 1 decade ago

    Just when you've given up, the right one comes along. Stay faithfull and pray. Concentrate on having good friendships first. It wont be long thereafter. Enjoy life while you still can, enjoy it with your best girlfriend, someone you can share things with.

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  • 1 decade ago

    it's not impossible and besides u want sum1 u kno u luv and will luv u bak!! u need sum1 special that will care about u and who u can care about!! don't just pick sum1 becuz they'll b wit u pick them becuz u wanna b with them. And sumtimes grls just play hard 2 get so u have 2 try harder and let them kno u like them and r trying 2 get there attention!! just make sure u don't try 2 hard!! u might scare them away then!!

    ur friend,

    kayla

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    1 decade ago

    You mean impossible for you? It's probably not...you may just have to go about it differently than you have been...

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