no kisses,nothing to talk about wen alone only tv is fun is this normal in a 6 year marriage?

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  • 1 decade ago
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    it may be considered normal because it is so common but it is NOT the way marriage is designed to work. time for you two to go back to dating. i still date my wife after 29 years of marriage. make sure that you are doing everything you can to be a great date and then suggest the dating idea and see where it goes from there!

  • 1 decade ago

    Well the first thing you can talk about is your feelings about the marriage! Tell him what you are feeling and say you need to do more than this. Think back to the days when you met and were dating, perhaps try pretending you are dating again and dress up go some place to date. Ask him questions as if you didn't know him and see what happens. Sometimes we just get too comfortable with each other and need to relight the flame. Hope you find something fun to do together.

    Source(s): 8 years married and loving it
  • 1 decade ago

    Don't let your mate stand in the way of you enjoying life. You have a responsibility to your future self to create good memories to look back on. Hang out with friends. Take the kids to the park. Take the pets to the park, whatever. If the only thing in your life that's fun is television, you've got more problems than your mate. You might want to go see a councilor. I mean, if you decide to break up with him, oh, well but you need to do more with your life than couch potatoism.

  • 1 decade ago

    it is for us. We just got guitar hero and have been playing that together. We started to play a lot of sports together. Try finding something that you both like to do together. Easier said than done, especially after working for 8-10 hours and then taking care of the kids. It's difficult to get out of that rut of sitting in front of the tv, but not impossible. Good luck!

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  • Rachel
    Lv 7
    1 decade ago

    So make time for kisses, turn the TV off and find a hobby to do that you both enjoy - and do it! Make the effort and get the love back.

  • 1 decade ago

    i don't think so, maybe u two need to go to counseling and find out why u can't talk to one another anymore. Or just sit down and strike up a conversation with your mate and see where it takes u, start by talking about the lack of communication.

  • Grrr!
    Lv 4
    1 decade ago

    Send a messgae to me and we can talk more on a personal level. Only serious talk. Okay?

  • 1 decade ago

    you guys need communication,thats the #1 thing married couples lack : communication,if no communication, it's headin straight to divorce, i men you wouldn't even know if your spouse is cheating or not.you need communication!!

  • 1 decade ago

    This is Abby-normal

    What show are you watching? Turn it off, and your spouse on!

  • 1 decade ago

    in that way im sorry to say yes but you should try some new activities

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