i think i may have a bigger problem than i think?

okay so my husband is a delivary driver for pizza! well the reason he got the job is because he knows how jealous i am of other s( i have a huge problem with chicks ) well his boss has hired 3 s...who i think he may like because he is always so HAPPY to go to work now. they are and skinny and real pretty and it makes me feel bad. well the other problem is i didnt know that he would be delivaring to the college so he is also ALWAYS at the dorm rooms and frat houses ect...well i called his job for him the other day and they said that he left for a run like an hour ago and hasnt returned.... which made me think " hes cheating on me" we have a rocky relsonship but i didnt think it was this bad. he says that he isnt cheating but i think hes lieing... i also think he may have given something to me because EVERY time that we have i break out into a really bad infection. i go to the doctors today .....do you guys think he is cheating on me? and what should i do?

Update:

i dont want him to think i dont trust him...and i dont want him to think im accusing him if he hasnt done anything. im 18 and this whole thing is just new to me...i dont know what to doo! i feel like i ruined my life by marrying this guy!

Update 2:

lets not foget we have 1 kid already aand 1 on the way

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago
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    I think you don't need to be married. The mistake of marrying to early and it ending in divorce is better than spending 10 years miserable trying to fix something that never worked in the first place.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Without any further discussion you married way to young. The fact that you are so insecure is a good indicator of that. Go to the Dr he will check you the proof will be in the pudding so to speak. If there is nothing wrong with you then you can look at the situation again. If you have a problem then you really don't need me to tell you what you need to do.

  • 4 years ago

    i think of you're especially risk-free, there is mostly a large gamble that condoms won't artwork, some 3% threat you could conceive if the education u stated became real. classes could be overdue for extremely some motives. classes oftentimes do no longer adjust until u r approximately 18 so i do no longer think of you have something to agonize approximately. As for her freaking out, tell her to take some extra tests and in the event that all of them come back negatives she has to settle for the undeniable fact that she's no longer pregnant. toddlers at the instant continually assume a +. and on no account a -. so whilst a - comes alongside we freak out and picture it relatively is a pretend -. good success

  • 1 decade ago

    i dont think that you are to young to be married i was married at 18 and i had my first child at 18 and me and my husband have had our problems but we are not un happy we are both now 22 and have 3 children all together. if you think that he gave you something you really should go to the dr and if you are not cheating on him(not saying that you are but just incase) then you need to ask him about it and tell him lookk you are the only one that i am with and i got this_____ do you have something that you need to tell me this way he knows that you have already been to the dr about it and that you need answers so that you can decide what to do about the marriage. i hope that this helps you.

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  • 1 decade ago

    I would not stay with him if you cannot trust him. You are only 18 and have the rest of your life ahead of you. You may have made a mistake by marrying him but you don't have to make the mistake of staying with him forever and ruining the rest of your life. You should seriously consider leaving him and finding someone better in the future.

    You have your whole life ahead of you....is this the life you want for yourself?????

  • 1 decade ago

    Good job going to the doctor. If you get repeated infections, be honest with the doctor about your concerns about your husband. Get all the tests you need to feel safe...say that you need to use condoms because of your infections. (After all, he could be upsetting your ph level...) Protect yourself from std''s etc.

    Do you work? Having your own income could help you feel more confident. Keep your family and friends close. God bless!

  • jude
    Lv 7
    1 decade ago

    there is cause to be concerned when u break out with something, as u know it had to come from him. think u need to get out of this marriage, as it can only cause u heartbreak, best to leave a bad situation even if u love the guy.

  • 1 decade ago

    Sounds to me like he is guilty until proven innocent. You are the problem, not him. It's no wonder he is happy to get away from you.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    You both married too young. He might be cheating, and you might be as well.

  • 1 decade ago

    What does your intuition tell you? Women have this 6th sense called intuition and it's usually correct.

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