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Anonymous asked in Family & RelationshipsSingles & Dating · 1 decade ago

My black friend has been dating this white chick. They want to get married. Should they go ahead with it?

I know they have been secretly having sex. Neither of them is religious. They pretend to be for the sake of parents. I know their parents will object. What should they do?

Update:

Name. her. I'm not a racist. I'm just asking for people's opinions.

Update 2:

I really feel they are so deeply in love with each other that they will cannot live apart anymore.

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  • 1 decade ago
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    If they want to get married then let them!! Whats the big deal about a black person getteing married to a white person?....Nothing! There is nothing that can get in the way of true love. I know that it is really hard to go against your parents, friends or family. However, we all need to move on in life. We cant please everyone, so yes if they love each other let them get married...Don't worry about the color, it the person inside that counts.

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    If they love each other and want to be together they should do it.

    I do not agree with the opinions "screw the parents". Some respect for the people who gave us life and have been there for us would not hurt. Off course I am not advocating any kind of obedience to them, everyone should make their choices in the life they are living.

    Last but not least, how come this is still an issue? I thought that the world has understood by now that the color of someones skin does not make him/her a better or worst person.

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  • 1 decade ago

    Hello.... if they are in love thats all that really matters. If their parents wouldn't approve based on the interracial aspect that's something that the parents will have to get over. it is hard enough to find someone that fits you so well and that makes you happy, why should they have to let that person go based on their race?? That seems silly... And their pretending to be religious for the sake of their parents.. um thats their choice. It doesn't really help anyone to be fake.

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  • dedra
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    4 years ago

    there's a distinct between being racist and being biased at the same time as it includes relationship. in my opinion i imagine the relationship sport is one are the position you need to be allowed to be somewhat biased. you're probable coping with someone you would spend something else of your existence with so why bypass about it with politics and attempting to be politically ideal only for the sake of being politically ideal. both my sister and that i have tried relationship out yet i imagine we both respectively got here to the right that the cultural differences have a tendency to be more desirable insurmountable than the phenotypic ones. the respond to the question is interior the shipping. There are some those who say pointedly that they date each and every thing yet black as if its not obtrusive why. they say blacks all seem an same, all of us act an same etc, and all of us recognize that blacks are the most assorted through visual attraction and all act different because we are the oldest race on the planet and performance blended with different races. So all of us recognize that to say those issues is an argument of media brainwashing. I actually have a difficulty with that, yet i don't have a difficulty with someone who dates their own because they prefer their own. though, i'm try now to not concern myself too a lot with human beings i'm not relationship.

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    if they are in love, let them get married. If their parents object, screw them. Parents are supposed to love their children and accept them for whatever choices they decide to make. So if they object, then thats their deal, but now its up to the parents to still love and accept their children.

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  • 1 decade ago

    If they are both consenting adults and love each other...it's no one else's business. There are many people who marry people who have different skin tones and pigmentation. As long as they are part of the human race, who cares!

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  • 1 decade ago

    Their parents should have respect for the both of them and if they are totally in love then I say yes go for it.

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  • 1 decade ago

    it's just proper that they're having sex secretly...normally, we don't do it publicly...and how come you knew it when they're doing it secretly?...being religious or not, and their races have nothing to do with their getting married, as long as they're on the right age (not minors) and each is not married to another person.

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  • 1 decade ago

    Follow their hearts. The parents will come around.

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  • 1 decade ago

    If they're in love, then they should do it. It might help to have a neutral party there when they tell their parents.

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