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Anonymous asked in Entertainment & MusicPolls & Surveys · 1 decade ago

Is this even possible?

I'm 14 and I've been dating a 16 year old guy for about 2 weeks now. The relationship is well and all but...

We have everything in common.

We're both writers... and everything we've written, we've had a similar character or storyline. These are stories we wrote long before we knew eachother.

We're both sick. We have the same symptoms, at the same time.

We think along the exact same lines.

We feel physical pain in the same places.

And we can guess things about the other and be 100% accurate just because it's something we know about our personal self.

We'd joked around about having some sort of connection, but all this seems to just be getting weirder.

Irony? Compatibility? Or what?

Update:

It'd be hard for us to be related, his heritage is mostly German and mine is Irish with absolutely no German.

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  • micho
    Lv 7
    1 decade ago
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    i think its compratibility

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  • 1 decade ago

    I think you both have enormous connections to each other, and are having psychosomatic illness in that connection. When you meet someone for the very first time that you feel so closely to, whether it is a friend, or a boy friend, or whomever, you want them to be so close to you, that it is easy to be so interconnected that you may even feel sympathetic symptoms.

    It is much like a husband feeling labor pains when his wife goes into labor. His pain seems real enough to him but obviously he isn't in labor.

    Maybe you both are just so enamored with each other, that you have been seeking the company of someone that is SO like yourself, that you have just become that intertwined with each other.

    If you were my students, or my children, I would suggest a little time apart, to seek out some new friends to add to the mix, and possibly some new activities that didn't include each other quite so much. You're only 14, and awfully young to be seeing someone so exclusively. Give each other a little time apart, and see if that doesn't settle things down just a little bit.

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  • 1 decade ago

    Yes, you have found your soul mate. Now, your soul mate is not the person you have to be with for the rest of your life...it is just a friend who tickles and soothes your soul.

    You are very lucky to have met your soul mate at a young age. Not that your a baby but from my stand point...

    You will always have this connection with him..no matter what happens. Even if things don't work out. Because he is your soul mate, all your memories are embedded into your soul, which can never be forgotten. You will feel him forever.

    I believe there is our twin out there somewhere.

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  • 1 decade ago

    Some people just have a serious connection. You may have already found your soulmate.

    Realistically, your relationship may not last as both of you are still young, growing, and many changes may come your way. But perhaps you will always have a special connection/relationship with this young man even after you both go your separate ways in life.

    My soulmate and I are very close even though we are both with other people. Some people just have a better understanding of who you are.

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  • 1 decade ago

    umm when your sick its possible to catch a bug especially if your kissing and what not but for the other things maybe you just have good chemistry or maybe you two are really just far out there. Maybe soul mates or twin flames, who knows?

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  • 1 decade ago

    Coincidence.

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  • 1 decade ago

    Irony

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  • 1 decade ago

    Very much so. I do, and I am not looking for nor advertising for customers, past life regressions, and you would be surprised how many of my clients have people in their present lifes who were in their past lifes. You may have been brothers, sisters, lovers, or he may have been your mother and you the child, or reversed. But, yes, it is not only possible, but probable. Just enjoy it!

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  • 1 decade ago

    Two weeks of seeing someone is not a relationship. But its prob just irony

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  • 1 decade ago

    People start to synchronize after a while.

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    first you're way too young to date and certainly not a 16 year old boy, i suggest just trying friendship.

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