My Girlfrind is geting textmessages from an Ex and she doesn't tell me ..?

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  • 1 decade ago
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    she probably thinks you will over react and she can have a connection with her ex without having it be romantic. People can just be friends after a relationship is over. Don't go crazy and trust her.

  • 1 decade ago

    Well if she isn't telling you then how do you know? Are you snooping in her phone behind her back? You obviously have issues or she has given you cause to think she would cheat on you at some point in the relationship. Move on or confront her about it....

  • 1 decade ago

    if i were you... i will be careful and very observant. she is hiding something big from you.

    my ex also did that to me. she also hides the texts and secretly dates this guy. one time i saw them in a bar (around the corner) and literally kissed in front of me. and i really got pissed off... just be careful and if ever the ex will be back to get her. just move on. i think your gf still got the thing for her ex. I'm sad to say, move on. try to find a better girl than her.

  • 1 decade ago

    Maybe she isn't telling you because she know's you're going to get mad. Is she texting him too. If so, she could still like him as a friend, and may not want to give that up too. It may also be that they aren't totally over each other. You have to check the clues and decide what's up. Just so you know not everyone who breaks up becomes ememies :)

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  • 1 decade ago

    Should she tell you? Do you tell her everyone who contacts you? And, how do you know - were you checking her phone? Plenty of people can still be friends with their exes, and remain in contact. This is an issue of trust, not the ex himself.

  • 1 decade ago

    Thats scary... seems like she is doing somthing that she shouldnt be doing!! I wouldnt tolerate somthing like that! The next step is cheating! If it was nothing to be scared of she would tell you! But since she is not telling you about it, then it seems as if somthing is going on or maybe she WANTS somthing to go on!! I would watch out!

  • 1 decade ago

    well take her cell phone and hide it and if she is looking for it tell her that u saw it and she had a textmessage and it was this guy and he hate you and will never speak to her again.

    Source(s): good luck
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    1 decade ago

    How do you know? Stop spying! If you look for trouble, you're going to find it - one way or another - right now, you are more wrong than she is!

  • 1 decade ago

    It obviouse you been snooping through her phone. Otherwise how did you know that. That's what you get.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Have you been checking her cell? I don't see much trust on either side.

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