How many guys should you go through before meeting the right guy?
Just curious to how many guys do you think is too many before meeting the right guy.
- Anonymous1 decade agoFavorite Answer
Many people search their entire lifes and fail but its not about quanity I dont reccomend settling with the first guy you have ever dated just because you dont know what to expect, He could treat you bad and since you have no other experiences you could live unhappy for years. So When you find a guy that you can stand to be around for hours at a time, wether he is your first or your 100th keep it.
- MK6Lv 71 decade ago
You don't "go through" guys.
Dating is a learned behavior and the ability to practice it successufully, learn about you 'date' and compare one with the other, - is your goal.
If after dating 10 different men, - you find that you've been 'used', - then you've a problem. If you date 10 different men, and you find that they don't call you back after the 3rd date, - then you've a problem. If after dating 10 different types of men, - and you cancel the progress since you don't 'like' any of them, - then you've a problem.
Dating is 'hard work', if you actually, incidentally have fun on a date, then that's just icing on the cake.
There's a window of opportunity for dating, and that's typically before you're 30 yrs. old. After 30, your chances go down, -just like your ovaries. It's not impossible, but the number of "availables" get limited.
I've seen women blow off dating, -and choose 'education' and careers, -wake up at 30 with nothing. (Thank you N.O.W.). If having a family is a priority, -then make it a priority, -just don't "expect it to just happen", like magic or something.
- Anonymous1 decade ago
I think you should go through as many guys as possible,just like all the other girls in this world. As long as you are good looking I would recommend that you sleep with at least 100-150 men before you marry.(I think that is the national average,although it could be slightly more.) This way you should have plenty of men to constantly compare your husband with on all levels: sexually,mentally,socially,economically,physically,mentally and emotionally. This will ensure that you are never satisfied completely in any of these areas thus leaving you miserable,just like all the men you have been through.
- 1 decade ago
As many as it takes. I don't think there's a right or wrong answer here; for some, it doesn't take long (or many) and for some it does.
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- 1 decade ago
As many as it takes!
- clumsyLv 41 decade ago
1 or 2 but dont go over board
- matty60Lv 41 decade ago
as many as it takes
- bottleblondemamaLv 71 decade ago
Dozens and dozens...many more frogs than princes in the world!
- 1 decade ago
When you feel and he feels the same(love for each other)As many as possible.
- ♥beautyfly♥Lv 61 decade ago
there is no rule here.You can have as many as you can, endless but also you can have just one who will be the right guy for you!