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Anonymous asked in Family & RelationshipsSingles & Dating · 1 decade ago

How should I act after my boyfriend breaks up with me 3 days before christmas and then calls like nothing happ

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  • Joe S
    Lv 6
    1 decade ago
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    Run! Stay away from nutjobs like that!

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  • 1 decade ago

    well I won't deny that must feel awkward, but I would respect anyone for dumping me before a holiday rather than after. I mean like how some women hang on to their men until after Valentine's Day just to squeeze more gifts out of them and then dump them? that's just low down and dirty. And at least he's cool enough to check up on you to see how you're doing. Some women who get dumped don't even get warning. Just gone. pfffft. gone, no call, no nothing. What happened? He doesn't say, so be thankful he did so with respect. It's much harder to dump someone than be the dumpee. Sure it's a buzzkill, but seriously it's not like he completely abandoned you did he? If you still value the friendship then do what's necessary to keep it and if you're steamed at him for letting him go, you should let him know at least it was his loss and get out there and "do yo thang." You're probably young yet, so there are kats out there far better for you anyway.

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    It's the oldest game in the world for young guys. They break up with their girls before the girl's birthday or Christmas, save money because they don't have to buy a gift for their now ex-girl, then they try to get back together after the fact.

    The guy's dirt ... forget about him. He's young, so I'm guessing you are too. There are 'too many fish in the sea' to get all worked up about a guy who doesn't care about you and your feelings just to save a buck!

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  • 1 decade ago

    This happens a lot. Guys break up with a girl right before christmas so that he wont have to get her anything and then miraculously decide to get back together after Christmas is over. He's a jerk, make sure he knows it.

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  • 1 decade ago

    Let me guess, did he NOT buy you a gift? Was that the reason for the breakup, so that he could get out of not buying you anything?

    Sounds like he has been listening to Tom Leykis. Tom recommends this practice of Drop That ***** before the holidays.

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  • 1 decade ago

    Three days before Christmas??? Sounds like he did not want to spend any money! Remind him that you are no longer together and wish him a Happy New Year with someone else.

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Tell him to hit the pike. After all, it sounds like one of two things.

    1) He is a cheap person and didn't want to buy you a gift.

    2) He is seeing another woman and spent the holiday with her.

    Good luck.

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  • 1 decade ago

    Question your relationship. Is there something else going on? Why would he do that? Maybe he isn't happy with something in your relationship which is making him question it.

    Things happen for a reason. If things are okay and he doesn't tell you what the problem is.....maybe he is just a jerk that wanted to hook up with some nasty slut for a night. I would ask him what is on his mind first before assuming though.

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  • 1 decade ago

    You should act the same way he treated you and that is not like his girlfriend, soul mate, confidant, companion, lover or friend. What explanation he gave you for breaking up with you should be the same explanation that you should give him for not getting back with him. Overall goal is to do better for your self and move on to better friends, people, and decisions. Do not feel guilty and know that it is not your fault.

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  • cubias
    Lv 4
    3 years ago

    precise I won't deny that should experience awkward, yet i ought to get excitement from all and numerous for dumping me till at last now a holiday in place of after. i propose like how some women persons human beings cling directly to their adult adult males till at last after Valentine's Day just to squeeze extra suitable provides out of them and then sell off them? this is in fact low down and grimy. And a minimum of he's cool adequate to learn up on you to confirm the way you're doing. some women persons people who get dumped do no longer even get warning. in fact long previous. pfffft. long previous, no call, no no longer something. What surpassed off? He does no longer say, so be grateful he did so with get excitement from. it quite is plenty extra sturdy to sell off somebody than be the dumpee. constructive it particularly is a buzzkill, yet heavily it particularly is in assessment to he thoroughly abandoned you in all probability did he? in case you besides the shown fact that value the friendship then do what's mandatory to maintain it and as quickly as you're steamed at him for letting him bypass, you're in a position to enable him know a minimum of it grew to become his loss and get obtainable and "do yo thang." you're likely youthful yet, so there are kats obtainable plenty extra suitable sensible for you besides.

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  • 1 decade ago

    That was an easy way for the tightwad to not have to buy you a gift. If you want that to continue keep him. But if you would like to receive gifts for birthdays and holidays then you need to find someone else to be with.

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