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ME AND My EX ARE FRiENDS N0W, BUT i WANT T0 BE M0RE THAN FRiEND.BUT HE D0ESNT FEEL THE SAME.SO WHAT D0 i D0?

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  • 1 decade ago
    Favorite Answer

    Depends if your MORE, is sex or a relationship!

  • 1 decade ago

    the best thing you can do, is keep being a friend to him and build on that and the other will come along in time if it's meant to happen.

    Perhaps before, you did not establish a proper friendship, wheras now you have the opportunity to work on that and leave the other alone.

    You cannot force him into a relationship with you again, if this is not what he wants at this time. He may change his mind in the future if he feels more bonded to you through being friends.

    You can do a thing, give it time! Also, do not shut yourself off from other prospects if they should happen to come along in the meantime, but definitely be a good friend to him! And wait and see.

  • 1 decade ago

    You broke up for a reason, and your ex has made it clear that he's moved on and just wants friendship from you. All you can do is remain friends, don't push him into a corner, otherwise you'll lose him as a friend. Maybe one day you'll get back together, and friendship is a good base to build on. Good luck and Happy Christmas

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Having a friend is better than a busted relationship anyway. Be glad that he wants a friendship with you, enjoy that, and move on to the next romantic relationship. There is always another one around the corner.

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Do you want to ruin the friendship completely? I'd say you don't. Calm yourself, take it, and move on. Seriously, if you try for any more than that, you'll no longer have a friend, who could ultimately turn out to be the best of friend you'd ever have.

  • 1 decade ago

    Try to let him go...I know it's hard but if he doesn't want you back you shouldn't insist..things might get worse. Try spending time with friends, throw or hide things that can remember you of your ex and think that life goes on...Meet new people, feel your time with something, don't let memories invade your mind and soul...Good luck with this!and remember..life is BEAUTIFUL if u let it be.

  • 1 decade ago

    i would say just to tell him if he wants to work things out. if not, move on and maybe stay just friends. just respect his decision...we all want things our way but i don't know what happened. whatever it is. if he really wanted this then he would want to work it out. if not, maybe his feelings have changed i mean he cares as a friend but wants time off/look for someone else.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Well, start flirting or do what you did when you first met, there must be a reason you guys dated in the first place.

  • Just enjoy the friendship, if it is a true one. Wished my ex would be worth my friendship, but he is not even worth a bullet to shot him.

  • deb m
    Lv 4
    1 decade ago

    accept it for what it is and move on enjoy your next new love

    you can not make a person love you like that

    good luck

  • 1 decade ago

    be patient and passion. keep it to urself. nothing much can be done. its hard to accept no 2 when it is not an option. whattodo, its life. good luck.

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