advice on my x gf?

i was goin out with my ex for over a year, we broke up a month ago.. she has been ringin me and emailing me, txtin me alot lately, the other night she heard i was txtin another girl and she went crazy, and got really upset... so i talked to her and said that other girl dont mean anything,, she didnt beleive me but she does now... i told her i love her and i wud do anything to get her back, she broke up with me cause she was confused bout what she wanted.. she said yesterday she would think about gettin back together, today she said lets just see what happens, if its ment to be it will this good news? what should i do? should i just be her freind and let her make the moves? she is still ringin me and txtin me, jus talkin to me.. i just want advice, thanks

10 Answers

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago
    Favorite Answer


    from the details provided, it seems that you are both young people and truth about us when we're young, females especially is that we have this fantasy about what love is supposed to be like which will cause her to say things like that "if its meant to be" thing.

    She's a bit confused about things but hold strong and things should work out soon.

    Whenever you feel like you are both in a relationship though, please point it out to her.

    By this I mean, if you do things the way a bf/gf do, talk to each other that way, hang out, kiss etc, point it out to her and have her acknowledge your relationship and if she doesn't tell her you need her to be committed to you.

    Anything else is a sham.

    Good luck


  • 4 years ago

    It seems like you are a really nice guy and there aren't too many of them left.You need to let her go and sit back and enjoy her attention to you. She screwed up not you. Trust me I have been married to a man that throws the respect down the toilet almost every other day and you DO NOT want that. You are worthy of a woman that will treat you right! This one has already shown her true colors.Just keep looking for the right girl and embrace all of the first's you get to do again. first kiss first touch first date - make the most of life and embrace happiness! Good luck.

  • 1 decade ago

    Tread carefully mate, this chick sounds like a cling on. Personally, I reckon she's manipulating you and what's to say it's not for her own personal gain? Steer clear mate, hope you don't have to deal with her at work or something?

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    I would screw her brains out while dating other women on the side she`s playing you so why not play her back what`s good for the goose is good for the gander have fun dude..

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    i honestly think that she's wasting your time, just doing things in a way that always suits her and what she wants, its time to think about you, how do you feel? deal with the situation in a way that suits you because shes the one thats messing you about. go see other girls and perhaps she'll get jealous and wanna get back together definite, or maybe she'll move on.....just go with the flow, dont stress.

  • 1 decade ago

    Move on dude, she is playing with you. She wants you when she wants you and wants to keep you for herself only when some other girl pays attention to you. She is stringing you along.

    Good luck!

  • Rocky
    Lv 6
    1 decade ago

    Just be her friend and let her make the moves.

  • 1 decade ago

    sounds like she wants all the benefits without the obligations, I would continue on with other girls and not worry about her.

  • 1 decade ago

    stay with her .. she loves u but she`s worry a lil , just be with her and see what `ll happen and wish u luck

  • deb m
    Lv 4
    1 decade ago

    ex girlfriend doesn't want to commit to you but doesn't want you to have an other girl either, selfish.

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