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Iam losing my love!!!?

i have a girlfriend and i love her with all my heart but i think iam love her too much and she thinks that iam cheating or something she is always pushing me around and when ever i say something she gets mad she is older then me she tell me shut up whenever she want iam always the bad person she say something wrong iam the one that says sorry and calls her back i dont know what to do here everyone says you have to talk back to her but iam scary of losing her thats why i never say something bad whatever she says goes iam the lil kid in this thing

9 Answers

  • Sax M
    Lv 6
    1 decade ago
    Favorite Answer

    You are not in a relationship. It's a use and abuse situation. You love her way too much than she loves you. She is taking advantage of you and your stupidity and low self esteem and causing you mental anguish.

    Start treating her like crap. Start treating her like she is treating you. Start dating other women. Start being passive aggressive. You need to treat her like sh*it so that she will start respecting you.

    Right now, she has no respect for you and she thinks you are the littlest man on earth. That's why she treats you the way she does. She does not love you, and you are nuts to think that you are in love with someone that abuses you.

  • Tweet
    Lv 5
    1 decade ago

    She isn't acting like a girlfriend and YOU are not acting like a boyfriend. It's more of a mother/child relationship. Which is NOT a relationship for adults. You shouldn't have to worry about what you say to someone you're in a love relationship with. If you can't communicate openly with her, then there's something VERY wrong here. Find someone who will be open, honest and treat you with the same respect and dignity you show them!

  • 1 decade ago

    You need to learn new ways of communicating. However you are doing it now is not working if youre saying you love her 'too much' and she feels you are cheating on her. There is some trust issues and poor communication. Check what both of you are contributing to the relationship and what you both want from it and if you are both thinking of the same future. peace and happy holidays.

  • 1 decade ago

    If u really love her u should be honest wiz her to tell her about your feeling towards the way she treat u i think that the real love could not continue without the frank and u sooner or later u can not bear her way and u gradually will lose her love . and i think if she really love u and deserve your love she will understand u and your feeling soo please take an action and stop hurting yourself

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  • jom
    Lv 4
    1 decade ago

    You have an unequal relationship that probably never will provide much happiness for you. She sounds dominant and rude. Yes, you do need to stand up to her and, if you do, then decide if she is worth the struggle. You should never allow someone to walk all over you. If she does, she does not love you or respect you. I wish the best for you!

  • 1 decade ago

    Do you really need someone who's going to treat you like that? If she truly loved you she wouldn't want to do you like that. Maybe she'll realize what she had once your gone and if not she didn't really love you to begin with.

  • 1 decade ago

    leave her its over if everything you fell in love with in the beggining is gone theres no point in trying find sum 1 else who respects you in at least 1 aspect

  • 1 decade ago

    Leave her, as the other person said. But she is not ur LOVE if she is like that. + u will not lose ur love

  • 1 decade ago


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