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Anonymous asked in Family & RelationshipsSingles & Dating · 1 decade ago

when you are 13, how far should u go with ur bf?

i have a bf nd all we do is kiss - is dat how its supposed to be or shud we go farther

24 Answers

  • 1 decade ago
    Favorite Answer

    Kissing at the most, if you want respect from anyone, don't do more than kissing, you may think that a guy respects you if you do stuff with him but it is not respect it is a feel of power of you. Plus girls will think your a hoe, and it will be a bad rep that carries with you. Even if your friends are doing stuff and they are popular for it, be the better one, my friend only made out with people till he was 15 and she was probably the hottest girl in the whole school, she was also the most respected by girls and guys. Don't worry there is plenty of time for all that naked business, but for now it will do more damage than pleasure.

  • 1 decade ago

    Sweetheart, you have no reason to sleep with this guy. It is obvious that you are not ready for a sexual relationship, and that's okay! Because you are so young you may feel influenced by others to take this step. Trust me, you will be sooo much happier in the long run if you wait until you're older and more mature (say, 18).

    At your age kissing and holding hands is fine, but do not let him talk you into doing more.

    Good luck to you!

  • 1 decade ago

    You're 13, just let yourself be young. Save all of the complicated stuff for the rest of your life. You have plenty of time to grow up. Be a kid. Kid's don't go farther.

  • Iris
    Lv 4
    1 decade ago

    If that's what you feel comfortable with, that's what you should do. Don't let other people's activities pressure you into doing something you're not ready for. If he wants more, you need to really consider how far you're willing to go, and how it might affect your relationship.

    Whatever else you decide to do, don't have sexual intercourse. Not only could you get pregnant, having sex before reaching physical maturity is one cause of cervical cancer.

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  • 1 decade ago

    hon.......thats as far as you should go.

    You have so much of life ahead of you.

    REasons.......sexually transmitted diseases

    Unwanted pregnancies, a guy can use a girl and then dump her and you will feel like a tramp.

    Remember if you are old enough to be having sex, then you need to be old enough to have a baby and support it and take care of it. At age 13 no way are you ready.


  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    I'm 13 nd in a perfectly happy relationship, you dont want 2 ruin wat u've got. If ur just kissing thats fine 4 where u are. Plus u can get things hangin ova your head if u do anything else

  • 1 decade ago

    At that age Hun kissing is quite enough ! don't let a boy pressure you into anything you are so young and have plenty of time .and i don't know have you thought about talking to your mom or dad about this stuff i bet they have some good advise for you .

    so remember its OK to say no and stand up for yourself to respect yourself .

    Source(s): mother of six . five girls one boy .
  • 1 decade ago

    Kissing and hand holding. No further than that until you are at least 17

  • 1 decade ago

    Im 13.... i makeout, hug, and hold hands dont go further or u will regret it!! BADLY! i havent gone further but have friends dat did! so yeah wait maybe a year or 2 to go further!trust me

  • 1 decade ago

    Save it til you get a little older. Don't be pressured into going further.

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