Tell roomate I might be gay?

So I am moving in with a friend I think she knows I am gay but, I have never told anybody yet. Should I tell her?

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago
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    Chances are, she probably has a good idea. But if it makes you feel better and you are looking for her acceptance then tell her. If she is a good friend then it should not matter.

  • 1 decade ago

    If you've been friends for a while and she has even half a brain she's probably figured it out by now. How do you read her acceptability level? If she's really homophobic (if so, I don't know why you'd be friends with somebody like that in the first place) then I wouldn't tell her. If you think she'd be cool with it then tell her. I've had several friends "come out" to me over the years. I always felt flattered that they respected and trusted me enough to tell me. Casually bring up something about gay people. If she's a d*ck and makes a homophobic remark then don't tell her. But if you decide to hide it and you're going to live with her then it's going to be pretty difficult to date, have a relationship or have the person spend the night without her figuring it out (unless she's really really dumb).

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    That depends on whether or not you are attracted to her. I am a gay guy, and I don't care if you're gay, straight or anything else - if you move in with someone without telling them you are attracted to them you create a time bomb.

    Oh, and if you are a gay guy (sorry, it IS hard to tell from the avatar) - then tell her! If she's cool with it, excellent! If not, then fine a room mate who isn't living in the 1950's!

  • coburn
    Lv 4
    3 years ago

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

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  • 1 decade ago

    yes, you should tell her... but not directly... like maybe have a casual chat with her, get all cosy with tea or something... and then try to sound her out first before you start blurting

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Can't tell from 'Avatar' or name if you're guy or girl.

    If you're a guy - she knows she's 'safe', if she does 'know'.

    If you're a girl - be honest.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    yes

  • 1 decade ago

    tell her but she knows already but she will appreciate your honesty and trust

  • 1 decade ago

    she probably knows and if not, tell her. it'll be a weight off your shoulders.

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