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relationship with a married man?

would you consider a phone relationship with a married man cheating this has been going on for a long time we have had many fights over this because i want more but he always forgives me after i tell him to go to hell i have asked him why he puts up with my insults and he says he is just a softy but really neither of us can seem to let this go and yes we have been intermite a long time ago we have known each other for 25years. should i keep this going i really don't know if i can give him up as i know i will miss him but does he care at all about me he,s the one that calls me.

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  • 1 decade ago
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    I think you better try looking intermite up in the dictionary....

    The guy is married...get a life and quit trying to be a homewrecker.

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  • 4 years ago

    Because the fact a man is married makes him more desireable, if another woman married him then obviously he must have some great qualities right? It's everywhere- why do women spend upwards of $600 on a purse that cost $100 to make? Because the trendy, famous gals have them. I love me some purses, ok, but I'm not going to drop a paycheck when I can buy one just as nice for an eighth of the price. Some ladies don't have that sense of reality- they see one thing and don't take into consideration the cons- like the fact that he's a married man cheating on his wife....oh they are "seperated" he doesn't love her, she's a witch. Some men are great at weaving tales and some women are gullible or love hungry and don't see the plain, simple fact that the man is m-a-r-r-i-e-d. I know there are just straight up, selfish homewreckers; but I also believe that the married party has their part too- slowing telling a tale that makes it "ok" to cheat. Unfortunately there are too many girls out there with low self esteem that think it's ok even without a divorice decree.

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  • 1 decade ago

    No stay away from this guy. Stop wasting your time and go find yourself someone who will be committed to you and only you. The only reason he likes calling you is cause he likes talking to you. He doesn't care about you, if he did then he wouldn't be married and talking to you. Put yourself in his wife's shoes. You wouldn't like your husband talking to some other women. I'm sure you'll find a guy, just forget about this one. Sure you'll miss him but you won't miss him forever. You'll eventually get over it.

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  • 1 decade ago

    if his wife doesnt know then YES it is a form of cheating.any time your not honest in a relationship it ischeating by breaking a trust between you and your partner. so stop taking his calls and get on with your life . goodluck

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  • 1 decade ago

    please spare yourself the heartache, angst, and horror; as long as he is legally married, and NO MATTER WHAT he says, his legal wife will be his #1. You deserve better than sloppy seconds. Whatever the case, check out the URL's below to an article and blog esp. for single women involved with married men.

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  • 1 decade ago

    no this man dosen't care much about you he's married , cheating on his wife and what makes you think he'd be any better to you , if you want more try seeing soneone thats single

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  • Rick R
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    1 decade ago

    Welcome to the stinging along of an idiot. That is what he is doing to you. Why do you feel you need to have a relationship with someone that does not fulfill your needs emotionally? Find another man that will do that.

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  • 1 decade ago

    just give it up. it will do no good to you and him especially his a married man. think about his family. i think it is still considered cheating.

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  • 1 decade ago

    I bet if you ask the wife she would say yes......but as an onlooker...I think you have emotional issues and need to seek professional guidance......

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  • 1 decade ago

    You will never get anything more out of this guy. End it now! You've wasted enough time already.

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