Should I take her back..?

Me and my ex broke up 7 months ago and I'm still very much in love with her. Well I found out that she is pregnant about 3 weeks ago. Well her new boy friend is really into drugs and he has gotten her hooked on drugs. I dont know which ones for sure but i heard rummors of crack. I also heard that he will prolly leave her before she has the baby and that if he does leave her she will prolly try and come back to me. But we havent talked in like 4 months. I was wondering if it was wrong for me to be so concerned about her even though that we have been broken up for 7 months. Should I be worried that he will prolly leave her and should i take her back for the babys sake. the baby is not mine though.

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  • 1 decade ago
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    wow..you are such as nice guy... there is nothing wrong to take her back...since you are very concern about her....talk to her deeply....so that you can picture yourself in the future...good luck!!

  • 1 decade ago

    Probably not... your a nice guy for wanting to do this but he didn't get her hooked on drugs probably it was her choice. She is over the edge and likely a lost cause. You will be opening yourself up for a world of hurt and pain and likely he will demand visitation even if you do take her in and get her cleaned up. The bf will never be out of her and your life and will use the baby to get whatever he wants. Sad but true.

  • goldie
    Lv 4
    1 decade ago

    ONLY YOU KNOW WHAT YOU SHOULD DO AND WHAT YOU CAN DEAL WITH. IF YOU ARE READY TO TAKE HER BACK, RAISE HER BABY AND LIVE WITH HER NEW FOUND ADDICTION, THEN GO FOR IT, BUT BY ALL MEANS, PLEASE....THINK LONG AND HARD ABOUT IT FIRST.

    YOU KNOW YOU CAN LOVE HER FROM A DISTANCE, YOU CAN BE HER FRIEND AND MAKE SURE THE BABY DOESNT SUFFER. BUT MEASURE THE SITUATION AT HAND BEFORE YOU JUMP INTO SOMETHING YOU MAY (OR MAY NOT) REGRET

  • Toni
    Lv 5
    1 decade ago

    This person need's help. Talk to her, try to. If she doesn't listen, find someone who will. For the sake of the child, & your ex. She's good enough to love, go help that girl. It won't be easy, especially if she's jacked up. So tread carefully. Do whatever it takes to help her. Seriously.

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    hard 1 can u n r u ready 2 rasie some1 else`s child

  • 1 decade ago

    tough call...

    you could and it could be an incredible relationship to last a life time or a hell raising experience.... alot of it depends on her.

    let us know how it turns out.

    You seem to have a good sense of whats right, or wrong and mature level of thinking... those are good qualities.

  • you should take her back if she gets off the drugs and has the baby.

  • 1 decade ago

    dont take her back she sounds like trouble...

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    No.

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