is it alright to have a "long distance love affair"?

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  • 1 decade ago
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    love is the operative word. Define love. Good luck with a definition which covers everything, and good luck being a long way away from "love" It's all up to you. Best!

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    It is ok. But it is not a great thing.

    U wont get to meet the person, u wont know how he behaves (body language etc) how comfortable u r with him... there is always some gap in a long distance relationship...

    As per me - find someone who's nearer.

    but if u love this person - and know he wont b cheatin on u being so far.. go ahead :)

  • Aliz
    Lv 6
    1 decade ago

    It is OK, but nothing usually comes of it because of the distance. Just make sure you really know that the person is what they say they are, because you could be scammed of raped if you do finally meet.

    If you are looking for a long term relationship or marriage you should look for someone within 25 miles of your home.

  • 3 years ago

    i think of you ought to assert it the day in the past he leaves, that way he will understand how deep of a relationship you adult adult males have and then there will be much less of a huge gamble of him shifting on whilst he's long gone. (no longer saying he will, in spite of the shown fact that it will make it greater obvious). i do no longer think of you will scare him off, he has to a minimum of assume it sometime quickly, because you adult adult males are so severe. It appears like he's not that throughout touch with thoughts and consistent with possibility he basically scared to assert it or does not even understand he does. Taking intiative will help in this occasion! good success! lots love? Melonie

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    I think these kinds of things are difficult, but whatever floats your boat. Even when 2 people are totally committed to each other, the long-distance geographically inconvenient relationship would never appeal to me.

  • 1 decade ago

    People have fantasy for love, here love exists in long distance. So theres no wrong in having it.

  • 1 decade ago

    well if u mean like just having a long distance relationship i think thats totally fine... but if u have a bf allready and r cheating on him then i think its not good...

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    aS A BETTING MAN I FORGOT THE GOLDEN RULE, LOVE IS AVERIS NOTHING MORE THAN TO FEED YOUR EGO. UNLESS YOU REALLY CARE ABOUT SOME ONE. YOU FIND YOURSELF LOCKED IN THE BATTLE OF YOUR HEART THAT THIS MIGHT BE SOMEONE YOU CAN'T LIVE WITHOUT. THEN THERE IS NO DISTANCE. LOVE TRANSENDS TIME.

    Source(s): JUDAS
  • 1 decade ago

    Sure. But what do u mean by affair? helloterrydale@yahoo.ca

  • 1 decade ago

    aslong as the affair dont get serious

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