I have a problem. I can't move on! And how do I know if he likes me?

He has two other crushes, who are my friends. Even though he talks to them in front of me, I don't feel anything at all. Usually, if I see my crush talking with my friends, I go belistic! But for this crush, something tells me that I just want him to be happy! Once, his friend told me that Kristian hated me. But when my crush's friend told me that my crush hated me, my crush didn't even look at me, or his friend! How do I know if my crush's friend is trying to get me heartbroken, or does he think that I should leave Kristian, because there's two other girls that he likes? My friend told me that Kristian never smiled or gave anything to Jessica or Rio. He only did those things to me. Also, how can I find out if Kristian really does hate me? Or if he doesn't? Help?

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  • 1 decade ago
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    First, you shouldn't go for a guy that your friends already like. That will never end right. Who ever doesn't end up with him will either be jealous, try to get with him, try to break ya'll up, or all three.

    Secondly, never trust hearsay. The easiest way is to just ask him and don't mention who told you. That way you will hear it from him, rather it is true or not, and then drop it. Don't go to the messenger and say that they lied to you. That will only start problems. If there is no way to prove who is lying or not, just let it go.

  • 1 decade ago

    Well you can ask Kristian if he does hate you or you can always forgot about the past and move on. Find another guy to get a crush on. Let go of the past and live for the present and the future.

  • 1 decade ago

    First of all, definitly high school drama. Second of all, get over it and move on.. dwelling on something so trivial will only bring you down and everyone else around you.. I'm sure you constantly talk about it, and honestly are probably annoying the hell out of your friends, even though they are being nice to you, and trying to be your friend and listen to you. LOOK, boys will be boys... apparantly you are not in his interest anymore. Go find another guy, show the one you are moping over that you are over him, and get on with your life. You are too freakin young to be worried about some guy. Trust me at this age, there is no way in hell you will find the love of your life or the one you will spend your life with. Go have fun, but don't worry about being serious with someone until you are older. I know that's tough to believe and I might sound like your mother, but I'm a woman who has had this type of experience, and now I just live each day. I am single, I love being single. I have been married.... it was horrible. Be happy being you, and dont worry about boys. Worry more about what you want out of life, cuz trust me, that is seriously important for the real world. Concentrate on YOU!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

    Source(s): I was a teenager once too believe it or not.
  • 1 decade ago

    Step up, and ask ur crush yourself. It never fails if you yourself face up to the confusion. Also, gather your friends and his friend so all of you can get things straightened up. Coz if not, friendships can be damaged by ignorance and if ur too preoccupied with who said who.

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Dear Gistina, confront him. Ask him how he feels for you. Don't lend your ear to any malicious whispers that are meant to confuse you! Just go up to him and say, I think you know I love you. How do you feel about me?

    Simona

  • 1 decade ago

    Just go up to him and ask him out. Maybe the 3 of you could team up on him.

  • 1 decade ago

    Ask him, don't go by hearsay... go straight to to horse mouth...and if he don't like you so what there are so many guys out there that will treat you so much better...

  • 1 decade ago

    Just ask them or call a group meeting and comfort everyone so there is no he said , she said thingy!

  • 1 decade ago

    Girl...been there.

    The only way is talking to him.

    or write him a letter tell him exacly how you are feeling.

    no one else but you. don't get your friends to do it.

  • 1 decade ago

    Would it kill you to ask him? that sure would save you a lot of time so you could like...move on.

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