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nosey neighbors won't leave us alone?

i'll get right to the point- 1st the walls in these apts are thin.

we have a 4 year old that sometimes doesn't listen to us,and it's a battle at bedtime. one neighbor (A) is friends with another neighbor (B) we're in bewteen them. (A) is a couple (B) is single guy. when A goes to work B goes over there and gossips with the girl about us, i hear it the girl likes to cause trouble, & when her b-friend gets home she tells him we're no good etc. they like to know everything about us, they ask others what we do, about $$ i know this "cuz" i hear them, and we have been warned, so now (b) has convinced them we must have a meth-lab TOTALLY NOT TRUE. i don't even know why that would even be said. so at this moment we are under investigation. we know this we've been warned, nothing could come out of this cuz it's not true. and i'm madder than hell. what should we do now

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  • Mark P
    Lv 5
    1 decade ago
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    Have you considered violence?

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  • 1 decade ago

    B probably wants you to be out of the apt. block since he finds your daughter to be a nuisance in his sleep or maybe he wants to stay next to his g/f in A's apt. rather than having you people in between.

    See if you can some ways to keep your daughter quiet so that the neighbors wouldnt be disturbed.

    While I wouldnt like to snoop round or get involved in their affairs, if you can hear what B and the g/f talk about so loudly, see if you can get this tape recorded clearly. They would surely talk things about you people which shouldnt be recorded. Once you get such a recording with sufficient evidence over a period of time, ask your husband to politely tell A and B that you have heard the malicious gossip that is exchanged about you and have evidence recorded. You dont have to play back the tape to them. This should shut them off, if not scare them.

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  • 1 decade ago

    Ok here is what I would do. One morning go beat on their door and say Mornin' neighbor then lean in to them and say, want some of my home grown and cookin', wizz bangin' way to start your day. Or go and buy them a case of romen noodles and say, I heard about your current income situation and wanted to help out, and be loud about it. Or better yet play an annoying song like I am the Walrus by the beatles or Lucy in the Sky With Diamonds, over and over for hours, between 7am and 7pm, and don't make it to loud just loud enough to piss them off, leave for a while and come back and shut it off. Alway run next door and ask stupid questions like. I was wondering what you're doing for Christmas, or what is the MPG on your car. Always ask to borrow a cup of sugar flour toliet paper, hell even underwear. It goes on and on, I am pro at pissing people off take it from me. Go in Christ

    Source(s): John 14:6
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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    You know you could solve this problem by moving away from them. You can get rental assistance if you need it and since you are under criminal investigation notify the authorities of your new living address so it doesn't appear that you are running. Once things are cleared up the matter will be over and you can get on about your lives.

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  • kettie
    Lv 4
    3 years ago

    you're doing precisely what you have to be doing as to the care of your canines. i'd inform you neighbor that if she would not options her personal organization that you'll record her for the ignore and inhumane remedy of her canines. also tell her that canines do not might want to be of their backyard to get their exercising. they could bypass to an off leash park or an stunning lengthy walk interior the community. they don't might want to be kept interior the backyard like you lazy *** is prepared to do and talk to it exercising. Sorry about that very last remark besides the indisputable fact that it makes me made at the same time as human beings like that imagine they understand each little thing at the same time as they don't understand squat. besides good success..

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  • 1 decade ago

    If your not cooking Meth then don/t worry about it people are always going to gossip because their lives are meaningless and they have to have something to talk about.I think it's time to move your family away or it will only get worse.

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  • 1 decade ago

    you should totally let the air out of neighbor B's tires. and then move. to a bigger, better, apartment. where only deaf and blind people live.

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  • 1 decade ago

    there isn't much you can do. that is life in an apt with paper thin walls

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  • 1 decade ago

    Report this to the landlord, demand your deposit back and move.

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