how come i have been out with 7 guys in the past 1 1/2 years?

and i felt that only two where the right ones. but the first one we have so much in commin and have fun naturally and the second we are tottally different but have fun sexually. wich is the better guy to go for?

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  • 1 decade ago
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    Your the only one that can answer that, Its about what you want not us......

  • Stasi
    Lv 4
    1 decade ago

    None - try to work on yourself and your self esteem. Any girl that has dated 7 guys in the last 1 1/2 years has some serious issues, and needs to work throiugh them before she starts dating.

    Also, I hope if you have sleeping with all 7 guys, that you are using a condom so you all don't catch anything!!!

  • momof3
    Lv 5
    1 decade ago

    go with the guy you have fun naturally with..you can always teach him to have fun sexually...

    p.s. commin =common and tottally= totally

  • When you are 84 and in a wheel chair, and you can't have sex anymore...would you rather be sitting with a guy that you can have fun with sexually but you can't actually have sex with because you are too old and tired? Or would you rather be sitting with a fun guy who you have much in common with and be chatting about how much you love eachother?

    Your best bet will if you go with Guy Number 1.

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  • 1 decade ago

    Sexual attraction will be very passionate for no longer than a year. Don't count on it lasting any longer for him.

    This is the way humans are designed. It's not your fault.

    If you are seeking fun, stay with the studly guy. If you seek a mate, go with the other guy.

    It depends on what you want.

    Don't get pregnant. Practice safe sex.

  • 1 decade ago

    None of them...Sometimes similarities bore us out as we don't have anything to share. Differences may seem to bring us apart but it is also to prove that you can understand each other better. The second one was just lust or whatever u call it. Sex is not a toy. It can harm youm physically , mentally, and emotionally

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    S_ex is a very impotant part of life. Make sure you choose a partner that is good to be with as well as in bed. Otherwise you might end up looking for sexual preasures outside.

  • Keith
    Lv 4
    1 decade ago

    I assuming you were sexually with both of them, which is more important to you: someone you have good sex 2-3 x a day or someone who is mediorcre sexually but you like being around

  • 1 decade ago

    Neither, you should try to find someone that will please you sexually and who will have lots in common with you. If you don't have a partner that does both of those things then you will find your self wanting to be broken up/divorced. Or you will find yourself cheating. Don't worry there is someone out there for you.

  • 1 decade ago

    Go for the one who is different from you. He will introduce you to some things in life you would never have normally done. And good sex is too hard to ignore too

  • 1 decade ago

    you are perfectly normal.. you must experience with people... like to see who/ what type of guy you are most compatable with. my opinion.. the first... he seems to be more connected to you.. emotionally rather than just physically. he will love you more (emotionally) more than the second that will love you sexually.

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