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Anonymous asked in Family & RelationshipsMarriage & Divorce · 1 decade ago

ladies I want to marry someday but?

I only want to take care of my self, clean my own mess pay just my bills, be lazy when i want to be lazy and not be rushed. i'm young(25) but I don't have time or energy to take care of others or be out all night with there friends. Some girls think i just don't care but i do. what do you think? Advice

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  • 1 decade ago
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    when you find the right person, you will want to give of yourself. Right now you are self center, and that is ok, as long as that is what you want. Some men are not meant to marry. You sound like you are phlegmatic. You want peace at any cost. You are easy going and don't need much except to be respected for being you. Your value is in who you are and not what you do, or how well you do it. You do not need to be the center of attention, and would rather be by the wall at a party. Understand yourself before you can understand a woman.

  • Bev
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    1 decade ago

    Getting married isn't like babysitting. It is a partnership, taking care of one another. Most women would be happy with a man that cleaned up after himself! As far as being out all night...dude that will go away on it's own in a year or so. People over 25 and married people don't do that!

  • 1 decade ago

    Dont do it. I have been married for 8 years. I would not trade what I have now, but I would never-ever do it again. You are going to have to put up with a lot of crap. Then the kids come and POOF your sex life is over, your are know on the bottom of the food chain in your family. Your call, go ahead and do it so that you can find out all of it on your own. You will get sucked in by a female, get married, buy a house, have kids.....its hard not to resist, but it will happen. Then 10 years from know you will understand what I am saying, or trying to say.........

  • 1 decade ago

    Don't get married if you think you will only have to support and love yourself. What is this? How where you raised? OMG a man and women are suppose to take care of each other and share the resposiblities and chores. You are selfish and still a child in mind. Grow up some more before you think of marriage. Marriage is a family and a family is more then you.

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  • 1 decade ago

    I honestly think that selfish people shouldn't get married. Marriage is not just about you, it's also about the other person. Sharing, caring, giving, making the others' dreams come true. You can be lazy all alone if that's what you choose to do, but don't attempt to bring someone else into that selfish world of yours!

  • 1 decade ago

    I think your still young & not ready for marriage yet. You sound like you still want to do & experience things on your own & that's o.k.! so don't worry about what other people are saying. Keep doing what your doing. People talking just gives you peer pressure to do things your not ready for. Don't pay any attention to them. You go be lazy, pay your bills, do whatever you want. When the times comes for commitment, you do it when you feel you are ready.

  • 1 decade ago

    I think you need to still do things that bring you happiness that women are not involve. You are young, don't marry enjoy yourself as long as you desire, then if anytime left marry. I got married when I was 20 and if I can go back, I will wait until I did so many things I love to do.

  • 1 decade ago

    You have plenty of time to worry about getting married later. Right now enjoy being single and just doing what you want. Later you may realize that having a partner and family are more important to you.

  • 1 decade ago

    You need to change your attitude or nobody would want to be with you. Being in love and getting married means caring for someone else more than you care about yourself.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    u are definitely not ready for no marriage, i don't think u are crazy for thinking the way you do. that is the person u are, the person that u decide to love should just appreciate u and think/want the same in life,but don't get married just because others think u should .

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