the person i like likes Jessica Alba and i feel jealous when he talks about her?

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  • 1 decade ago
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    You need to become more secure in yourself and work on boosting your self-esteem. If you are jealous because the person you like likes a celebrity that he doesn't have a snowballs chance in Hades of ever hooking up with, you have issues and will have problems with any relationship until you work on solving them. You need to find out what you do will and are passionate about and enjoy yourself. Being overly needy, insecure and jealous are a total turnoff!

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Does this person know Jessica Alba? Probably not, so I think it's safe. You need to calm down a little bit. If you are jealous when you aren't even dating this person, and he likes a celebrity, what are you going to be like in a relationship? A guy is not a guy if he doesn't keep looking at other women! It's not that he wants to take the other woman home instead, but don't you still look at other men? There is a HUGE difference between thinking someone else is attractive and acting on it. If are as insecure as you sound, any guy who meets you will hit the ground running.

  • 1 decade ago

    I doubt he will ever meet or see Jessica Alba. If you feel inadequate like you can't compete with her--that is fine. Feel that way--but keep in mind there are more important things to feel that way over!

  • Syngi
    Lv 4
    1 decade ago

    The feeling is pretty normal.

    Think about it... is there some celebrity you like? Some couples use role playing to make their intimate lives more exciting. He calls his girlfriend the name of some celebrity he likes and she calls him the name of some celebrity she likes. Too, the both of you could research celebrities that interest you together.

    Then again, if he's just obsessed with a celebrity, you might want to back out of the relationship. Being a normal fan, though, is not horrible and, as I said, can make your relationship more interesting.

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    tell him that Jessica Alba would never give him the time of day let alone go out with him.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    OK, he likes her. Does he fantasize about her? Does he have pictures of her outside of the norm? Does he focus on her nude pics? What you need to determine is, if he fixated on her? or is he just emphasizing he likes the way she looks?

    It's not like she's real to him. I think the only thing you have to watch for is an addiction to pornography. Contrary to popular belief, this is not healthy.

    One thing you could do is find out what he likes about her. If it's body parts, then he needs help. If it's her style, then he's just another boy looking at a girl. Try to be easy on him . . .we boys tend to be weak when it comes to sexy women.

    That doesn't mean he like you less. If this continues to bother you, you need to let him know. I wouldn't require him to stop being attracted by her. Just let him know you are slightly jealous. It will help you more than him.

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  • 1 decade ago

    she is a CELEBRITY he is a normal person. u shoodnt be so jealous of him talking about her. evrybidy has a celebrity crush or wutevr. it sounds like hes not even old enuff to go out wit her. get over it!!

    if u want to make him feel jealous do the same thing

  • 1 decade ago

    OK, so who doesn't have some celebrity that they think is attractive? Just realize that he has some fantasy (that will obviously not come true) However, if he is too obsessed with that, bail out...he's not the kind of person you really want to be with in the first place...

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    You have nothing to worry about.Jessica Alba the movie chick. One of the hottest creatures on earth. Like she will ever give him the time of day anyhow.

  • 1 decade ago

    omg dont take him seriously. as if he is EVER gonna have a chance with jessica alba!!! all guys like hot celebs so dont get jeolous, cuz if he likes you back then he talks about how hot you are behind ur back!!!

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