When my GF wakes up, WOW??? Only Girls?

Girls, here's the deal...my gf freaks out if she wake up and I was there, she hates if I see her first when wake up, she gets really mad, But really, she's ver beautiful and sexy when wake up, i told her that many times, she still don't like it and I like it soo much...She looks soo natural and sexy when she wake up, why she's doing this? I really need to know? She never gives an answer when I ask her.

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  • 1 decade ago
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    Well, a lot of girls don't like being seen when they don't feel they look their best. If your relationship is less than a year or two old, she may feel like this for a while. She does things to make herself attractive to you, and that is all stripped in the morning.

    As she gets more comfortable, and more secure in the relationship, she will probably get over that.

    Just remember to continue to reinforce what you are saying, and don't say a lot of negative stuff to her otherwise (don't point out flaws, just emphasize the positive--consistently!!!).

    She will eventually get over it.

    Source(s): Life experience--I used to always be insecure in a long standing relationship I was in. I felt that he criticized me often, so I didn't want him to see me at my worst. The man I am with now has always told me I am beautiful, even at my worst. He also laughs at all my jokes, puts my best face forward with his friends, and generally has confidence in me and himself. I don't have a problem having him see me in any state because I know that I won't be criticized for being me. It is nice.
  • 1 decade ago

    She does it because she may feel embarrass about they way she looks. Usually people don't look so good when they wake up. She really needs to calm down because if you like the way she looks then there shouldn't be a problem. Just keep telling her she looks beautiful and sexy, she may get over it.

  • 1 decade ago

    They say u can see a women real beauty in the morning . She may be beautiful like u see her , but i think she don't see herself that way. I heared a lot of cases when women get up really early to get a make up before the guy is awake , its just a complex she has.

    Be patient and make her feel beautiful in all the ways , it will go in time.

  • 1 decade ago

    she is probably worried about her "looks" before she gets her makeup on and her hair fixed. This is a self esteem issue for her and it is hard for her to believe you when you say she is beautiful. Just keep telling her how beautiful and natural she looks when she first wakes up. Think of cute statements for her each morning to remind her of how pretty you think she is. Over time, she will begin to feel more comfortable with you seeing her early in the morning.

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  • 1 decade ago

    U are such a swetheart. Girls are very concious abt their looks esp when just arejust out of bed, i guess u must stop the compliments and observe her on the quiet. then mayb on on sunday afternoon ask her why does she not accep yyour compliments and she mayb able to giveu a better response, or who knows u may convince her to accept ur complimnts

  • 1 decade ago

    she thinks she looks ugly without make up on and stuff i know what u mean though i find girls extremly sexy when they r natural like that all the make up hides the natural beauty of them another thing guys will never understand about girls

  • 1 decade ago

    You should tell her that if you guys were married, would she never want you to roll over in the bed and look at her in the middle of the night? I'm heavily leaning to the typical "she's insecure" answer, but I think I'm going to go with "she'll grow out of it" it takes a while for women to realize that some guys actually like them for who they are and not for what they apply to their face or bodies.

  • 1 decade ago

    shes totally right i used to hate for my bf to c me in the morning and i don't wear make up its just that i might have cold in my eyes or anything but I've gotten over that because hes says he likes the way i look in the morning so maybe she'll get over it too

    does she wear make-up?

  • 1 decade ago

    i think you should tell her you like the real her, not how she want herself to look like....But not in the morning when shes already freaked out; but rather when shes so calm and cool at some other time.

  • 1 decade ago

    Beats me! She must be pretty insecure. Especially if you've already told her she's sexy!

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