Aight, im 20, army, and a decent looking guy, why am i single, are girls afraid to get involved with...?

a military guy these days?

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  • 1 decade ago
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    Its just some of U are really Playboy... so that`s why...

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Why are you in such a hurry? Many of us don't get married these days before our 30th birthday. Y'sound as if you expect to meet a girl for the first time and be in her pants an hour later. It just does not work that way, recruit!

    You're a stranger in a strange land - we older veterans found that out shortly after putting on that funky uniform. For locals to take a bit of time to warm up to you is normal human response. You can overcome that, little by little, by being outgoing and helpful, not by standing around griping 'cause the women aren't flocking worshipfully around your barracks and serenading you before reville.

    After hours - make yourself useful. Get on down to the base chapel and see what sort of volunteer work is needed in the nearby community - then pick one of those tasks and tell the chaplain you'd like to volunteer. When those civilians learn that you really do care and that you take an active interest in the community, you'll see their visible attitudes toward you change for the better. And - keep it up even if you do meet and hook up with a woman. You drop the community involvement and you'll wind up less respected and trusted than you are now.

    Take it from 'ol Sarge - been there, done that many a year, young trooper. The only way to get a woman you don't have to buy (and worry about STDs) is to work for it.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    I don't think so army man are very nice :) But it depends on what you r looking 4 if 4 a one night stand you'll find loads if 4 a serious relationship then it's a bit hard to find a girl trhat is interested because of accidents and long time not seeing you and stuff like this, goodluck.

  • 1 decade ago

    Not at all, actually girls around Military Bases get involved with military dudes all the time and try to get money out of them so watch out for them.

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  • 3 years ago

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  • 1 decade ago

    Na man dont worry to much about it...ive found the more u think about it and the more you try and "force" it to happen to much the harder it is to actually find that someone...itll happen when you least expect it, she'll walk right into ur life or the other way around...best of luck to you

  • 1 decade ago

    Some girls feel intimidated by servicemen like we arent good enough and sometimes we may be afraid of falling for someone who could be shipped oversees and never make it back.

  • 1 decade ago

    Just find one you like and then move into her house until she likes you back. What are they teaching you guys nowadays? Just kiddin'.

    NOT!----- Seriously though, God Bless You for what you do. You're a freakin' hero, what girl wouldn't want a real life G.I. Joe?

  • 1 decade ago

    No they just don't like 20 year olds !

  • 1 decade ago

    thx for serving ur country:)

    and also...hmm..i would be. i'd hate to date a guy if he was in iraq or somewhere.bu tthats me...bu tlike my friend kelly,her fiancee is in iraq,and they are doing great! <3

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Maybe they're afraid you'll get injured or worse. Thank you for serving your country!

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