How do you dump a guy without hurting his feelings?

I always seem to break guys hearts, even when i try to let them go as easily as i can. They always complain that i broke their heart.

Its geting annoying!

How can i dump them to where it doesnt hurt AS bad or much at all?

Guys, you're help would be appreciated most here!

15 Answers

  • 1 decade ago
    Favorite Answer

    theres never no easy way to do it, you just have to do it he will get over it

  • 1 decade ago

    There is no way to do that. You think it's ANNOYING to break guys hearts?! Good grief! With that attitude, it's no wonder that you hurt them so bad. You just need to be honest and straightforward to break up with him. Don't give him that "let's just be friends" line either, because it's so lame. It's better to let go in a more clear and unambiguous fashion. Be nice, but don't let him have any false hope.

    The same thing goes for rejection. Don't reject guys by saying "Oh, I like you as a friend/brother" or whatever. It just isn't a good idea. That will hurt them much more than if you tell them the truth (that you don't like them) or that you have a boyfriend (a lie, but it works well enough if the guy has any sense and won't get to know you well). Make sure they won't have any false hope!

    Good luck!

  • 1 decade ago

    Whats this ? Are you the kind that loves him, then leaves him ? Something tells me that your nothing but a heart-breaker and should be avoided at all costs ! Next time just tell the guy that he's just in it for the ride and when it's over, It's over and you're just going to move on.

    After your first night of sex, you may wake up to an empty bed and $100.00 bucks on the nightstand in the morning.

    If it was me......please.....just shoot me, or don't bother at all, just leave me alone !

    I can understand if the guy is an abuser or an ******** but not if he's true to you and treats you right !

    Source(s): ''SCHOOL OF HARD KNOCKS''
  • terra
    Lv 4
    1 decade ago

    Surely when you dump a guy it is impossible that you can do it "without" hurting his feelings. If they get hurt, feel bad, and complain, just let them be because they have a right to be hurt. It doesn't make you evil if you hurt them as long as you were hones about your feelings. They deserve the truth, even if it hurts So don't get annoyed when they complain. There are things that they should learn to accept and there are also things that you need to accept. Like the fact that people get hurt when we dump them and most often there is nothing we can do to minimize or avoid hurting them what's most important is we were honest with ourselves and with them. :-)

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  • Jason
    Lv 4
    1 decade ago

    i don't know how you can dump a guy without hurting his feelings unless u made him dump you first. If I were to be dump by a girl I would rather her say that we are not mean to be together and that it time to move to find new beginning in our live. If she say that I guess it can be soften, but a break up is a break up unless you are the kind of people who thrive in short term relationship.

  • 1 decade ago

    Just generally piss him off for a while, be hot and cold, be all over him in front of his mates which will make him uncomfortable and be cold when the 2 of you are alone.

    Start borrowing his razor and start being crude burping and farting a lot, blokes deep down don't like it.

    Just have fun in pissing him off and he'll probably talk along the lines of a break or get someone to seduce him and end it cause he cheated,

  • 1 decade ago

    First of all with that kind of attitude, I wonder what you are saying. You do not dump someone like garbage, but end the relationship. Get with it, perhaps you need to quit being so harsh with your attitude and show a little kindness. It won't hurt, you can still end it, without looking like Attila The Hun.....

    A person who looses a relationship will always be unhappy and upset, you can't help that , but you can treat them with dignity...

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    What ever you think is right -- just do it -- but remember that if you are dumping someone else then in future what you do if someone dumps you -- find a new guy best way he will go far from you -- totally free dating services -- logon to

  • 1 decade ago

    Look, sorry to say so but you seem somehow heartless or you are play-acting ?

    Listen to yourself: dumping people as garbage...

    Are you not overrating yourself a bit, by the way?

    Are all those guys masochists to want to be with a girl like you?

    I don't know but it seems to me you are not very choosy, you seem to be attracted by born losers!

  • 1 decade ago

    For sure any guy will get hurt if he gets dumped. It's hard for anyone to be rejected.

  • 1 decade ago

    call every 2 secs,, make a big deal out of everything, be annoying and m sure he will dump you. oh and do that when he is out with his guy friends,,

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