Anonymous asked in Family & RelationshipsFriends · 1 decade ago

how do u make a group of good friends 4 some reason everyone hates me how can i change this and make a good g

-roup of friends i want 2 have 2 or 3 good friends which i can trust and hangout with got any advice-ps non of this stuff on be ur stuff and i am blonde and blue eyes and i am never mean 2 anyone and i always dread going school because i know i am going 2 get teased i bet theres lots of people who know wat i am talking about i am just tired of been treated so horriably 4 no reason i am not up my self i am not emo or goth and i just want some tips on how 2 make a good groups of friends

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  • 1 decade ago
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    To make a good friend, you must first be a good friend. Don't gossip, don't cheat on them with their girlfriends, don't steal their stuff. Be there for them and be supportive. And make sure that they're good people, who won't try to get you in trouble or mess with you for their own amusement. It can be difficult to tell at first, but after a while their character will show itself. People really do say what they mean, so listen with discretion. If you want to meet people with interests like yours, look where people like them usually hang out. If you're into soccer, join a soccer team. If you like skateboarding, visit a local skate park. If you're more of the literary sort, look in the library for a like-minded soul with a mountain of reading material in tow. The same with chess, lacrosse, foreign languages, and so on. It's as simple as that. Well, good luck.

  • 1 decade ago

    First of all ,have you heard the saying "Be the change you want to see in this world."?If you find that you are different from the others, find a way that will attract you to what attracts them. Like for example, if you hate soccer but the others love soccer, the read books and magazines about soccer to get to know more. Once you know enough, find a way to showcase it. Once that's over, people will find that you are similar minded and will become good friends.

    A tip after you make friends - Give them a strong compliment once in a month or so.It will make them feel special and attracted towards you.

    Source(s): The tip was from the book - "How to Talk to Anyone" by Leil Lowdes.
  • 1 decade ago

    points to me lol

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