Help? This girl makes him SO mad!!!?

I'm a girl, but I'm going to ask this from a guy's perspective to see what my guy friend should do with his gf.

My girlfriend flirts with other guys in front of me, and we don't flirt as much as we used to. We've been dating not too long. Two months? Well, I know I've kinda distanced myself from her and we haven't talked too much. She isn't meaning to flirt, she just has a TON of guy friends and is a very outgoing girl. I know she really likes me, she's just felt hurt that I haven't been talking to her as much, so she has been spending more time around them. She says she isn't flirting, it's just her personality.

I've also been avoiding her recently, I haven't let her talk about it with me, even though she wants to talk about it and work it out.

I still like her, it just annoys me that she is hanging around & being playful with those guys so much.

Should I break up with her? Or stay with her & talk it out?

We've already talked some, what should I expect her to say to me?

Update:

I'm just trying to figure out what my boyfriend is gonna do.

Cause yeah, he smad at me and thinks I flirt with other peoples when I just... (Well, read the question)

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  • 1 decade ago
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    It sounds to me that the guy is not into the relationship to much. If he was he would talk to the girl and listen to what she had to say and if he couldn't make things better or be happy with who she is, then they should break up.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Ask the guy what kind of girls he actually wants. Does this girl actually match what he wants ? Of course, there is no perfect girl in the world, if flirting and outgoing is the only minus thing, he should consider to stay in it, if she is just flirt without really being a slug.

    A flirtuous girl can be fun to be with as long as she is just being playful and a loyal person.

  • if your friend really wants to be with this girl he should talk it out more than some. Some people are just outgoing and have a friendly personality. If he can accept that and not be jealous the relationship should go great. I am telling you, jealousy plays no part in a relationship. Being committed to each other and knowing that there is no one else should be all that matters.

  • 1 decade ago

    she shouldnt flirt especially IN FRONT of him!! now u said that she doenst mean to flirt.... well.. girls atleast most of them can be really outgoing & all bubbbly personality wise. for me atleast, i have a lot of guy friends (mainly b/c girls are realy catty) but my bf doesnt mind. he understands and trusts me. you need to talk to her bout it & work it out. dont leave it for later... there might not be a later... and its better to resolve it now =]

    she'll probably get defensive & assure you that shes not flirting... dont accuse her... but jsut ask her to try not to be like that. if you put all the blame on her, you will make her get mad & defensive

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  • 1 decade ago

    If you are not comfortable w/her as a best friend ,how about social friend,.She is flirty and that bothers you, then break up w/her. How you would you feel if your friend runs your life? She'd feel the same way like you do.

  • cutie
    Lv 4
    1 decade ago

    if shes your girlfriend and your really like her talk it out, i mean she can still flirt but it should only be flirting and maybe you have trust issues u need to work out within yourself if she knows where to draw the line then its fine

  • 1 decade ago

    tough. I'm a girl, but I think that he should dump her. It's rude to flirt with other guys if you're already with someone. It's downright nasty.

  • 1 decade ago

    Hmm.. shy boy comes in girl id to get info. dude it's not like we really know you. (wink) Dump her. Move on. More cats in the world.

  • x
    Lv 4
    1 decade ago

    You gotta lay down the law. Don't take sheit from her, if she isn't behaving how you want her to then let her know. If she keeps doing it then dump her.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    I think you're in love with your friend, and jealous of his girlfriend.

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