why is he acting like this?

im 18

hes about to be 19

ive been going out with my bf for 3 years

and everything has been great

but today he got mad at me cuz he saw me talking

to one of my guy friends

but i meen i wasnt flirting with my friend or anything

but he still got mad

and i was like why dont u want me to talk to him

and he was like

"i dont like u talking to him"

but he was soo mad about it

he had never acted this way

im confused

i dont get it

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  • 1 decade ago
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    Just discuss with him. I think some other problem is existing there.

  • 1 decade ago

    Jealousy and insecurity? Lol, it's funny, but a guy will eventually feel possessive of his girlfriend. The slightest talk or act will trigger the jealousy. He's probably afraid of losing you to the other guy. It's a good thing, since you know it takes great feelings to trigger jealousy. However, you cannot let it gets too far to the point that he will control your communication status, etc. Clarify and assure him your eyes are not adverting elsewhere. =D

    Happy holidays!

  • 1 decade ago

    Maybe he has a valid reason... give it some time... maybe a week or two before u want to talk about it...

    He would have cooled down by then and would be more open to ur questions.

  • 1 decade ago

    He has a problem with jealousy and you need to reassure him. Pay more attention to him then you do your friends. If he is confident in your love the jealousy will lessen and soon disappear.

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  • 1 decade ago

    Hmm if u have done nothing wrong then just let him go mad, and dont try to explain to him that u have done nothing wrong, dont even talk abt it for sometime. talk abt something else which u both are happy.but after sometime when he is cool just talk abt this matter.

  • 1 decade ago

    Don't worry about it. Say your sorry and if that is not good enough what else can you do?

    Offer to take him out to dinner or something, if he says no take someone else, lol!

    Good luck and Merry Christmas!

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    he's jealous...

    he has the same personality as I do. believe me that hurt him so much...

    he afraid that you would leave him and go with that guy.

    he don't like that feeling but he got no choice at all....

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    You can't love without jealousy.

    Take it as a good thing, he doesn't want to lose you.

  • 1 decade ago

    ask him

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