why is it that...?

why is it that most of the time the one you like or love doesn't feel the same way? and like the saying goes you can't catch the fish if you aren't near the water but what about you can't drown or get hurt if you aren't near the water. and is finding the one you belong to really worth all the pain and suffering?

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  • NoMaD!
    Lv 6
    1 decade ago
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    True love is always worth it.

    -NmD!

  • 1 decade ago

    Are the things in life ever easy to achieve?????? think about it..

    Nothing comes easy honey. To love is to hurt.

    You don't want to contain yourself in something that isn't going anywhere. Don't have your mind set on one guy/girl just because you FEEL that he/she is the one because most of the time, it doesn't work out that way. And just because you don't get what you want the first time around, don't feel discouraged to keep on trying for love. Love is not like friendships...love has to be developed, maintained, and fought for. It certainly is a real adventure searching for love and the best part of love is, the path to finding it. If you're nowhere near love, how can you expect to find it?

  • 1 decade ago

    It's a matter of mismatched priorities. You're in one spot and the other person is in a completely different spot. For example, maybe you're one who will try and take a bit of a plunge if you feel the right person has come along. They, on the other hand, may just be expecting love to appear magically before their eyes and they don't have to focus on it. You see, it's sad but people have different conceptions about how it's going to happen for them and you simply meet at the wrong time. You might be a match but you're mismatched.

  • 1 decade ago

    You will find in life that about 90% of the time... that the easiest way to go is not the best way to go. Love takes time and WORK!!!

    Source(s): Taking the time!!!
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  • 1 decade ago

    you can never get the reward with trying... and risking...

    however, you can try without risking too much. take a calculated risk... remember that whatever you do you cannot please everyone and what might be OK for you will be taboo for someone else..... so just go ahead and take the plunge. otherwise you will find yourself in a couple of years thinking "what if...."

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    You have to have the bitter in order to appreciate the sweet.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    dear child, of course it's worth it...that's why the roadblocks are there to begin with..so we can appreciate the reward all the more...

  • 1 decade ago

    love is sacrifice..well, you have to fight for it, and exert all the effort to make it worthwhile..love can wait,in God's time there is happiness..everyone is entitled for it.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    :s

    really confused!!!

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