do you pay attention more to those who please the eye, or to others?
i think that in general, we go with the eye candy. ;) but we should pay more attention to the inside.
- 1 decade agoFavorite Answer
I pay more attention to whoever has the best personality. I've seen guys that I thought were goodlooking at first and girls that I thought were pretty at first, but once I got to know them if they had a nasty personality, they didn't seem so goodlooking or pretty. Then I've seen people that I didn't think weren't so pretty or goodlooking at first, but had sweet personalities and once I got to know they seem better looking. It's true what they say that beauty's in the eye of the beholder.
- bownLv 41 decade ago
I don't mind someone that is easy on the eyes, but I like intelligence just as much. But, I'd really prefer both. lol I love to talk to elderly ppl, they have the best stories. So that should say something.
- A-DollLv 41 decade ago
it may seem selfish, but i judge the book by its cover. i don't see someone walking by and say "oh, he looks like he has a great personality" no way! i'll think "whoa! he's hot!" Then, i'll get to know the personality of the person, and decide whether or not he is truely worth paying attention to.
- Kayleigh♥Lv 41 decade ago
For me, it has to be both. I won't date a man that I'm not attracted to physically or emotionally. He doesn't have to be gorgeous or anything, but I can't be with someone that I don't find appealing.
But I won't be with someone who is gorgeous on the outside but hideous on the inside.
There has got to be both.
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- Anonymous1 decade ago
In general, women tend to be way more superficial. You can find a guy who accepts an 'ugly' woman for her personality but never a woman who accepts an 'ugly' guy.
- FangLv 41 decade ago
- mrlebowski99Lv 61 decade ago
I like pretty people more. Have you ever seen what the inside of people look like? It's pretty gross
- ÐIESEŁ ÐUBLv 61 decade ago
Eyes wise...I like pretty people. I just don't always like them once their mouth starts talking.
- doneLv 41 decade ago
we are a superficial, shallow, society. our role models are shallow eye candy promoting merchants and we buy it up like...well...candy.
- Circlometry™³Lv 61 decade ago
nope, i only pay attention to those who smell of exotic things, like shoe polish.