im cheating on my husband and he found out im pergnet and its not his wht should i do?
umm i feel stupid
- kny390Lv 61 decade agoFavorite Answer
Unless he is the forgiving type, prepare yourself for divorce. Followed by a paternity test so he doesn't have to pay child support.
- 1 decade ago
You know people make mistakes it doesn't make them right but you learn from them so don't let people make you feel stupid. Sometimes people can bounce back if you really love your husband and everything and he is a good understanding guy you may be able to patch things up. However, if he doesn't want to work on this with you which sadly to say is understandable you have to hope for the best maybe if you don't want this baby give it up for adoption because no matter which way you go on this it is going to be shaky ground.
- Georgia PreacherLv 61 decade ago
I went through this with my first wife, I caught her twice, the first time we seperated for one year then tried it again only for her to do it again. At the time I worked for the Federal Gov 12 hour shifts, I would say if he will take you back and forgive you keep yourself only for him or just give in and set him free, the first step to forgiveness is repentance. Ask forgiveness and go to marriage counseling with a Pastor who deals with this sort of thing, your husband deserves honesty and respect. I just think those that cheat not only hurt thier spouse but also their own selves in many ways. Reputation is everything and you don't want to be labeled a Hoe. Get into a Bible believing church and good luck.
- 1 decade ago
Congratulations you have made a serious mistake and the only thing left to do is lie in the bed that you have made for yourself next time just leave the husband you don't give two shits about him anyways to be disrespecting him in such a way. You deserve everything that is about to come your way. I can't stand cheaters it is the only thing you ask someone you love to not do to you the only simple thing.
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- wanna_help_uLv 51 decade ago
Well the only thing I have to say is that: Is not fair to keep a lie up, to the extent that even your child many years after; will suffer and pay for the consequences of your mistake today.
- --; cookie.Lv 41 decade ago
Unless you didnt have sex wiht him for a while , how are you sure its the other man's baby? But anyway, you made the choice to cheat on him so I guess you need to apoligze until you know who's baby it is excactly you cant do anything more.
- MeLv 61 decade ago
No wonder you feel stupid... you did the worse thing you could do to him.
talk to him and see what he wants to do, now there is not that much you can do , but being so sorry.
he is the one who has to make his mind staying with you or not, letting you to keep the baby or not.
- amosunknownLv 71 decade ago
God. Grow up.
Both of you need therapy, and then you need to decide if you're willing to stay together, and then decide if he's willing to raise the child as his own of if adoption is a better route.
If you're not going to stay together, then you need to hit the father up for child support.
- 1 decade ago
Leave. That man is not going to be bothered with someone elses child. Tell him. Forgive your self and have your baby.
- Anonymous1 decade ago
if i was your husband i would divorce you.To be cheating is one thing but getting pregnant that is really stupid.it is more likely you did not use protection with that other guy you could have given your husband a STI.